Why, Yes, I Do Shake My Macarenas. Thank You For Asking.

I had baby boy #1 in a baby music class.  He liked it enough (on the plus side, there was dancing ... on the negative side, no snacks) but I hated it.  Hence, the "had" part of the previous statement.  I really did give it a shot but I really, really loathed this class.  Perhaps you will see why after this story.

The lady who taught it was more than slightly crazed.  Now hear me out before you get all judgmental about my judgmental-ness.  I think anyone who willingly wear sweatpants to work every day and sings

                "Bye, bye books.
               It's time to go away.
                  Bye, bye books.
               It's time to go away.
                  Bye, bye books.
               It's time to go away.
               We'll play with you
                    Another day."

with such gusto must, by definition, be slightly touched.  {Honestly, she made the random waiter/wannabe opera singer at Macaroni Grill look stifled}.

Now don't get me wrong: I love the idea of happy, singing people but she was just as alarmed at the fact that I do not sing "Bye Bye ___" to every object in our house as I am at the fact that she DOES sing to inanimate objects (her husband must LOVE this habit.  Like a gum smacker but louder).  We were just completely and utterly opposite in our views on randomly bursting into song about blocks/bottles/strollers and the attention these objects require from me to thrive in their role as, well, random household objects.

My issue (in addition to her false logic and poor arguing skills that I will explain in a bit) is that 1) I did all the work for this class and 2) I sucked at it.  As in I needed a remedial class and that is not acceptable.  Did she NOT get the memo as to who I am?  I am not a remedial kind of girl.

Furthermore, bebe boy did not have to sing, I did.  I never remembered my glasses so I could never see the cheat sheets on the wall unless I wore my prescription sunglasses indoors which, at 9 in the morning, makes me look like "Strung Out Barbie" and I don't want to have my baby taken away from me by the government.  Crazy Lady actually lectured me once about using the cheat sheets.  Seriously, lectured ME.

Crazy: "Didn't you study the songs in advance?"
me: "Are you kidding me?"
Crazy: "I gave you a CD the first day.  You should practice them daily."
me: "Are you kidding me?  You expect me to study for a one-year-old's music class?  We oink in here."
Crazy: "Have you EVEN listened to the CD or laminated your barnyard animal art?  Have you hung it on the wall yet?"
me: "Are you kidding me?  We, literally, oink in here.  And, furthermore, you think I will have laminated barnyard animals ON. MY. WALLS?"
Crazy: "Yes, I do.  How else will your child go to college?"
me: "Ummm, he has got a pretty good gene pool.  Kind of like beating a fast horse.  To make a barnyard animal reference that I imagine you to be very fond of." {I still find that to be a great one-liner.  I don't understand why she did not even chuckle}.
Crazy: "WHERE IS YOUR BAG OF SUPPLIES?  DO YOU EVEN SHAKE YOUR MACARENAS?"
me: "Do you find anything humorous about that question?"
Crazy: "No."
me: "Pity.  It is a good one."
Crazy: "Are you kidding me?"

So, she is asking me several classes later if we are doing summer classes.  I (perhaps a little TOO QUICKLY) say (okay, scream) "No.  It is summer and we don't do summer school in my family."

She is not amused with my lack of enthusiasm and asks me how I expected Junior to go to college without this class.  Like "E I E I O" is a pre-req.  SAT?  Check.  GPA?  Check.  EIEIO?  Check.

"I have several graduate degrees and I did not take music classes.  He'll be fine just, well, being a one-year-old this summer and doing his 'Oh how I love to eat cheese' dance.  No lamination required."

"You know that by making this decision, he will never be good at math," threatens Crazy Lady.

Now this is where I draw the line!  I will accept (not graciously, mind you) the fact that I suck at singing and all things musical/creative.  I will fully acknowledge that I did not prep properly for this weekly torture session.  But I. WILL. NOT. ACCEPT. my children not being good at math.  I don't care if I have to beat a love of numbers into them (sounds effective, no?), they will NEVER brag about not being able to calculate a tip.  (There is a blog coming up on that very subject.  But as a teaser 1) calculating percentages is not math and 2) no one would brag about being illiterate but being bad at math is not something to be ashamed of?  Au contraire!  One of my personal pet peeves.  Ugghhh).

I calmly respond "Clearly this is a case of 'post hoc, ergo propter hoc,' a logical fallacy."

Apparently, it was only clear to me since she simply stared at me.  After an uncomfortable silence I continued "Music classes are clearly NOT essential to success in mathematics, though some studies have shown them to be linked.  Correlation is not causation, however."

Honestly, I thought that I could not have been more clear.  I rested my case.  She stared at me.  Hummm, must further clarify my position.

"See, my friend, I have a Masters degree in Mathematics, with an emphasis in logic and statistics, as you can clearly see by my superior arguing skills.  And, I have had no musical training whatsoever as you can clearly see by my performance in this class.  A class designed for one-year-olds that I am, quite assuredly, a miserable and public failure at.  Henceforth, music classes are NOT mandatory for mathematical prowess.  Thus, my earlier statement of post hoc, ergo propter hoc."

I, literally, sighed with contentment.  Perhaps I even purred.  Happy in the knowledge that I had set her straight and that she would no longer declare this barnyard nonsense essential to future algebraic bliss.

No doubt I have much better math skills than I do people skills since I was completely ill-prepared for her frustration/anger with me.  She never invited me back to summer school or, hell, even fall classes.  Alas.

For the record, in case you were curious, my barnyard bag o' goodies was found (cheat sheets and all) months later in the trunk of my car.  It went into the recycling bin while I sang:

                "Bye, bye random bag of barnyard crap.

                                It's time to go away.

                  Bye, bye random bag of barnyard crap.

                                It's time to go away.

                  Bye, bye random bag of barnyard crap.

                                It's time to go away.

                     We'll shake our macarenas with you

                                    Another day."

Random Stuff

"We are eating dinner.  That means, sit down, limit your dancing and please keep your belly out of the barbecue sauce."

"It's a little like religion and a lot like sex, you should never know when you're going to get it next" sung of gumbo by none other than Jimmy Buffet

"That baby would never make it as a caveman, he is too loud.  And chubby."

"Man, that kid has a huge head.  He is like a human Bobble-head."  {Sadly, this is somewhat true.  The boy is in a 4T hat at 20 months.  What can I say?  Big head, big brain.  But he does not look like a Bobble-head nor does he fall over from the sheer weight of it.  No worries}.

"That woman is the social equivalent of waterboarding" (said about my mother by my hubby).

"You know I only shovel the coal on your crazy train.  Hell, I don't even get to ring the bell." (said by Hubby about me.  Not nice but true and funny).

We took the little guy to his first baseball game (last weekend).  He has always been obsessed with all things ball-related but it is at a crescendo now.  He insists on wearing his baseball glove at all times and everything is a bat.  If he is practicing his swing with a candle/umbrella/zucchini (we moved the huge plastic bat outside.  Clearly, this has not impeded the process), he wears the glove on his head.  Since I have taken all the balls out of the main level of our house (and this was no small undertaking), he has had to find viable ball-substitutes.  Therefore, our lemon trees are bald and I have been hit in the ear with a very large onion.  For the record, onions hurt.  A lot.

How Lovely. You Must Be So Proud.

At Christmas, I am, against my will, chatting with a loser {and it takes me a LONG time to declare someone an 'untouchable.'  Trust me on this one, she defines the word 'yucky.'  No worries on her reading this and getting offended because, as you will see, reading clearly is not her forte.  It may not even be a skill she possesses.  On some level this makes me really sad, on another level she is so past creepy that I simply don't care.  And it kills me to say that ...  And, besides, she found NOTHING odd or shameful about this conversation.  Months later I STILL feel dirty from it.  But, I, well, have standards and dreams for my boys (yes, even the one in utero -- with as much as he wiggles, I am guessing trapeze artist).  


{Small sidebar:  Boys, if I EVER have this conversation or one akin to it with anyone, expect a bill.  I am keeping (or will keep, once I get organized) a running tab of the salmon, spinach, DHA-fortified milk and bok choy that you have eaten on my watch.  If you turn out to be idiots, I ASSURE you, you will get a bill for all the brain food that I clearly wasted my money on.  Backdated.  With interest.  Loan-shark-esque interest at that.  Don't say you weren't warned}.


Feeling much better for having released that threat to the universe.  


This is the conversation:


me: "So how is your son?"  {This poor kid has lived with God-only-knows how many people and has been taken away by the great state of Texas.  Twice.}
loser mom:  "Good.  He's 19.  I think.  Maybe 21"


{How the f do you not know how old your child is?  And not even to the nearest year?  Honestly, this is how he ended up like he did:  his mom thinks (and, yes, I use that word loosely) he might be 19 or 21?  "Well, I think it is an odd number, could be prime, might be divisible by 3...."  What the hell is wrong with you, lady (yet another term I use loosely}.


me: "How lovely.  What is he doing now?"
loser: "He is thinking about going back to school and getting his GED."  (And, yes, I get the irony of leaving to school to go back to school to get a piece of paper that says "I dropped out but might be functionally literate nonetheless.  Please hire me.")
me: "Of course he is.  How lovely."


{Has anyone else ever noticed that every drop-out is simply "too smart for school" according to the parents?  I will admit it here and now:  I will refuse to accept/admit/acknowledge the fact that my kids are morons even if it is blaring in my face but, seriously, explain to me the logic in the statement "He was too smart for school.  The teachers were jealous of his intellect.  So he dropped out."  


Honest to God, I know a LOT of smart people and some downright brilliant people and somehow they all managed to graduate from high school.  Without fanfare or major cause for celebration.  Just a piece of stale cake and a pat on the back.  


Not that I am bitter, I don't really think high school graduation requires some kind of major hoo-haw or three-day pagan ritual celebration.  It is HIGH SCHOOL not NASA's astronaut program, for crap's sake.


And, please fortheloveofgawd, I am begging you NOT to tell me one. more. time. "Bill Gates dropped out of school and look where he is."  


1) he willingly left college, not the 8th grade  
2) he left Harvard rather than being booted out by the Pigsknuckle Public Education System 
3) not to be too much of a statistician, but Gates defies all odds on many levels 
4) if your kid ends up as Bill Gates (or even manages to stay out of prison), I will personally tutor him to get his GED (and I loathe tutoring, especially tutoring morons) and, finally,
5) post hoc, ergo propter hoc (correlation, not causation for those of you who did not take Latin or a half dozen logic classes).


Yes, I realize that that was a really long non-sequitor and you have my apologies.  But, once again, it is my blog so nanner-nanner-nanner if you don't like it.  It is funny and free.  Back on task now.}


In case you don't recall I am standing in a kitchen, wishing I were anywhere else, talking to a loser.


me: "What does he plan to do for a job?"
loser:  "He feels like he has three choices."
me:  "How lovely; options are good.  And they are?"


And I SWEAR TO YOU, I am NOT making this up.


loser:  "Rodeo clown.  Professional wrestler.  Porn star."


{I have a frighteningly long pause with, I fear, my mouth ajar}


me: "How lovely.  You must be so proud."

Diggity! (or Why Your Momma Talks to Homeless People)

Well, by the time you are reading this, my sweet boy(s), you will have figured out that your mom loves to talk (all state in high school, not to brag).  However, in addition to chatting to the usual suspects, Mommy has real conversations with the coffee place people, the farmers at the market (which, I swear, is why we always get the BEST tomatoes), etc.  However, I also think that it is important to connect with those people on the edge of society.  Please don't ever humiliate me by thinking you are better than other people.  You have been given a zillion things and opportunities that most people only dream of.  Until you know someone else's story, do not make assumptions about them.  And never think you are better.  But by the grace of God go you (well, God and Momma because I assure you, you will never be homeless on my watch).

But, anyway, back to the point.

Don't panic, I don't follow homeless men down back alleys and I avoid suspicious characters completely (Daddy would throw a fit).  But I do have quite the rapport with the slightly touched guy who collects cans around the University of Denver (and I mean he carries hundreds if not THOUSANDS on this Asian bamboo stick contraption across his shoulders and zooms around on his bike -- the guy must be in the best cardio shape of any homeless guy ever.  And. he. does. it. at. altitude.)  You would not know he is off until he swears to you that he is on DU's payroll as the official can collector.  Now the school is all about "A Private School for the Common Good" but hiring a can collector seems extreme even for DU.  And, if he does get paid for this, I really want some of my tuition money back.  Seriously.  Write me a check.

Anyway, this posting is not about that guy.  There is another homeless guy I chat with.  He loves my ass (what can I say?) and often wears pants the color of orange sherbet.  And they are always immaculate.  Somehow I have complete access to a washer and dryer as well as a dozen dry cleaners within five miles of the abode and I always have avocado or spinach on my clothes.  This guy lives on the street and has USMC style creases.  Clearly, he does not have an affectionate toddler who loves to eat but still... it just seems wrong.

Anyway, back to the point...

When I got pregnant the second time, I knew before I actually missed my period because I fully believe in those Test Five Days Earlier! pregnancy tests.  Yes, I know it is mildly obsessive but it is the only thing I am anal about so cut me some slack (well, that and eating organically).  And besides I only test if I feel that I am pregnant and, for the record, I have never been wrong.  So there.

Back to the point again...

So, I test positively on Saturday and it is Monday.  I know I am not showing because I have been pregnant for approximately an hour.  Sherbie comes zooming up to me to walk me to class (I LOVE that, by the way) and this is our conversation:

Sherbie:  Your ass is looking mighty fine today.  As usual.
me: Thank you, sir.  Your pants are nicely pressed.  As usual.
Sherbie: Thank you, miss.  I have some news for you and about you.  I had a vision, if you will.
me:  Oh really?  Please share.

Sherbie: 1) You're pregnant.
me: Uh-huh.

{For all I know, I could be talking to God; I am intrigued to say the least}.

Sherbie: 2) And it's a boy.
me: Uh-huh. (But there are 19 boys in Hub's family and 3 girls.  Of course it is a boy.  Not that he knows the family tree.  But still).
Sherbie: 3) And you're gonna name him Diggity.
me:  This, my friend, is where we part ways.

However, I was/am pregnant.  It is a boy (we found out today).  And, yes, his final prediction/vision was correct.  We have given him the call sign of Diggity.

OMA!

My neighbor babysat bebe boy twice a week for eight months and he ADORED her.  Unlike Mom and Dad (the duds), she did nothing other than entertain the baby all day.  If he wanted to throw a tennis ball to her dog for five hours, she was more than happy to accommodate (yes, he was often able to wear out a German Shepherd).  He called her Oma (she is Dutch and fab-u-lous in every way).  Oma also keeps a huge supply of bananas on hand (hers, clearly, taste better than the bananas I buy).  


It always amazes me that people assume that babies have no short-term memory or "real" feelings.  Here is a perfect example to the contrary...


So the other day we are going to see my midwife (yes, I am pregnant again in case you missed the announcement) and I tell Luc "we are going to go see someone who loves you very much."

He shouts "OMA!" and starts running for the door with a banana and a tennis ball in his hand.  I felt horrid disappointing him...

4th of July

Eat snowcones.

Make homemade ice cream.

Buy sparklers.

Thank a veteran.

First Phrases

So, when bebe boy was 10 months old he had 15 words.  You know, the usual:  Mama, Dada, ball, truck...
My favorites were "takoo" for "thank you" and his very extended "welcommmme."  And, yes, I was thrilled beyond all comprehension that among his first words were thank you and (you're) welcome.  Sniff, sniff.

At about 12 months, he lost interest in those words other than Mama, Dada, Wiwah (for Delilah the bulldog, his bff) and Hummy (what he calls our dog, Humphrey).

However, now he whips out the occasional phrase that is shocking and not to be repeated no matter how we cajole, beg. threaten.

The first one was "Ididn'tknowwhereyouwere?" while he wandered around with his arms in the air.

The second one was "LoveyouMom" after he ran across the room, planted a smackeroo on my mouth and then zoomed off.  Yes, I melted and, don't deny it, you would too.

Today, he fell asleep in his car seat clutching, of course, a ball.  He is endlessly fascinated with balls, it is such a cliche but, I swear, we don't encourage it.

He wakes up, looks around his car seat and asks "Wheremyballis?"  Not exactly correct English but give the kid a break he is only 18 months old.

His declaration of love for me was only a couple of days before his declaration of his love for football.

You have no idea how grateful I am for this...

#35 Quirky Reasons Why I Love You

All (or most all) parents love their children in ways they never knew possible.  I get that.  But some of my favorite things about being a mom are bebe boy's quirks.

I love how you prepare for road trips by kicking back in your car seat with a Perrier between your legs, one leg tossed over the side and a book in your hand.

I love how you never walk from one place to another:  you either run or dance there.

I love how you will completely un-selfconsciously rock out in public when you feel the need to (Dancing Queen, All the Single Ladies, Proud Mary are some of your faves).

I love how you sleep with your bottom in the air.

I love how you can, literally, dance your diaper off.  In public.  To Mustang Sally.  {No picture, sadly}

I love how cherry tomatoes hold a special place in your heart {I ate thousands of them while I was pregnant with you... coincidence?}

I love how you expect people to love you and to be kind.  You remind me on a daily basis to fully anticipate the laughter and fun in life.

Being your mom rocks, little guy.  Thank you for choosing me.

#34 On Why I Am a Bad Mommy

At times, I feel like I am not exactly an exemplary mom.  Now don't start calling CPS just yet on me.  I spend $10/day on just organic strawberries and Omega 3 fortified, organic milk.  Yes, I have drunk the Cool-Aid, but I can't argue with the results.  He never gets sick, has never even had diaper rash and has the sunniest disposition imaginable.  If it ain't broke...

And to my credit, I did not yell at you, sweet bebe boy, when you were gnawing on my Hermes bag.  I did not get upset when you gave me yogurt dreadlocks.  Hell, I laughed it off when you pooped in the tub (while I was in it, btw).

That being said, it seems like other moms are much more bedraggled by their offspring.  And, for whatever reason, I assume that makes them a better mom than me.  Yes, my shirts are always dirty (but I consider evidence of baby lovin' and hugs rather than a permanent state of filth) but other than that....

We don't have a Raffi CD so there is not one permanently stuck in my car CD player.  I figure when you drive, you can choose the music but in the meantime, Shortie, Mommy chooses.  {Though I must admit that it makes me melt that you are so enamored with BB King.  Have I mentioned that you are one kick-ass, cool kid?}

I have yet to buy fish sticks, chicken nuggets or that pre-packaged applesauce in little plastic containers.  You have teeth, you can eat real salmon and apples.  Momma does not believe in breading or artificial thickeners, whatever the hell they are.

We have no qualms about having a glass of wine on the deck while you zoom around in your Porsche pedal car tormenting the dog.  Not every activity needs to be interactive with Mommy and Daddy, especially while we are having margaritas.

#33 Know What You Like

Rather than what is trendy.

Here are your favorites thus far (indulge me, people, I am not getting any younger and I suck at journaling and scrapbooking -- when did that become a verb, btw?  So, I write things down here so I will remember then when I am in the old folks home):

"Dancing Queen" by ABBA
"All the Single Ladies" by Beyonce
dogs, the larger the better (and if the dog can fetch, boNANza)
ice cream sandwiches (that's my boy!)
cherry tomatoes
udon noodles
strawberries
your bottle of milk (half gallon a day... egads)
Oma
balls (or pictures of balls, you totally don't discriminate)
shiny, exposed areas of flesh that you can zerbert (see posts from 1/11/2010 and 6/21/2010 for proof of his love of the zerbert)

#32 Crummy Jobs...

everyone has to have had them so they appreciate all the great stuff they later have.  You, kiddo, will be no exception.  I assume that we will be able to well afford a car for you but you are going to have to earn it.

Here are some of the crappy jobs your daddy and I have had:

** an ice cream scooper at Braums (though, not to brag, I can still square dip with the best of them and I make a wicked milkshake)

** a clown at McDonalds

Daddy's jobs went to the dirtier:

** laying sprinkler systems.  In the summer.  In South Texas.

** being a short order cook on an oil rig.

Yep, they suck they make you appreciate the good life when you get it.  There is NOTHING worse than a kid with a sense of entitlement.  Nothing.

#31 And Speaking of Gay

from yesterday...

Other stupid (stoopid, even) things that I have heard since you were born about homosexuals:

"His hair is too long.  If you don't cut it, he is going to be gay."

"Boys should not wear cardigans, they will end up gay."

And my personal favorite:

"Aren't you concerned that he likes strawberry ice cream?  It is 'gayer' than chocolate."

Oh honest to God, if your grasp on heterosexuality is so tenuous that ice cream is the deciding factor, you are going to be gay, my darling baby boy.  And for the record, that is fine with your daddy and I.  Please do not be one of those closet cases full of angst and self-loathing.  You are one of the most beloved people on the planet, your sexuality could never change that.

Our view is what someone does in the privacy of their own bedroom (between consenting adults) is none of anyone else's business.  {Child molesters are another story but they are, statistically, heterosexual men.  And dead if they come near my sweeties.  And I do mean, D E A D but previous to death, tortured.  Hubby has a degree is that kind of stuff, don't tempt fate in case you are a fan of my blog}.

I know, I know.  Totally out of character but occasionally I post pictures of sweet bebe boy and it kind of freaks me out.

And, for the record, your daddy loves strawberry ice cream and he is decidedly heterosexual.

#30 On Affection

Do not be one of those freaky dads who can't tell their kids that they love them, especially their boy children.  "It will make them weak" is a crock.  Your daddy loves you with all of his heart (as do I) and he is man enough to publicly and {loudly} express it.

Don't get me started on men who won't kiss their sons/grandsons because it will "turn them into homosexuals."  Seriously...

#29 Thank You

Always be the first person to say thank you. 

Know how to write a proper (and beautiful) thank you note.  

Know that thank you notes are not just for job interviews.

A hearty thank you and handshake is appropriate for the owners of a restaurant while everyone else needs a tip along with your gratitude.  

#28 On Nakedness

Let your own babies have naked time.  To a one they all love it and who does not need more "happy dances" in their life?

And learn the difference between naked time and nekkid time.  One is for babies and one is MOST DEFINITELY not for the underaged.

Bunny!

I have heard it said that in every parent's life, there comes a time when you beg the universe "please don't let that be my child."  Normally this thought is precipitated by the crashing of hundreds of bottles of BBQ sauce or a display of crystal.

Well, my first "PDLTBMC" moment came today at Whole Foods.  Now to bebe's credit, Whole Foods is his 'hood.  He is totally a Whole Foodie and currently has a $5/day organic strawberry habit in addition to his $4/day milk issue.  I am trying to rationalize this with decreased health care costs but, seriously, Houston, we have a problem.

But that is for another day.  This is about The PDLTBMC Incident.

We are zooming through Whole Foods and bebe boy is perfectly content eating strawberries and sampling the free smoked gouda (yes, I totally let him eat the free samples at WF but not at other places.  For whatever misguided and warped reason, I am convinced that dirty hands don't touch the WF samples.  Yes, I know this is ridiculous but it is my madness as well as my blog so there)!

Once he has been sated, he insists on getting out and pushing the cart.  I hate this because it slows me down but, seriously, this is not the hill upon which I choose to die, Marine.  So I let him out.  He pushes the cart in huge circles and randomly stops to dance or pick up some snacks for his discriminating self ("ohhhh, Baby Bells, don't mind if I do."  "Is that cave-aged cheese?").

So, I am at the charcuterie counter (SO much more attractive than "deli counter") and here comes a character I will deem "Bunny."  Now everyone knows a Bunny or, at the very least can pick her out in a crowd.  She is the 30-something woman who wears completely inappropriate attire for Sunday morning grocery shopping and acts like she has no idea that she is, essentially, naked.

Bunny's get-up this a.m. consisted of a silver lame shirt and (really beautiful) platform heels in black snakeskin (hey, she is a whore but a whore with very good taste in footwear).  And, yes, I do mean she was wearing a shirt.  I think when the vice police come to get her, she will swear up and down that she thought it was a dress, but it was a shirt.  And not a particularly long shirt either.  I am against forcing women into wearing a burka but, seriously, I am less than amused with seeing your cheeks while I pick out my Romas.

So, anyway, bebe boy is fascinated by shiny, half-naked girl (which was clearly her intent.  She was, hopefully, aiming for a slightly older audience than my 18 month old but attention is what she wanted and she got it.  In spades.)  When she zooms by, bebe boy claps.  Not as appreciatively as he does for cherry tomatoes or strawberries but she got a higher score than the bananas got this morning.  Not bad for 10am on a Sunday.

This is where the wheels come off.  I am chatting away with the deli guy (oh sorry, the charcuterie monsieur) and I hear a bit of a ruckus.  I turn around just in time to see that Bunny is bent over, cheeks fully exposed.  Seeing her shiny naked self is too much -- bebe boy has abandoned both the cart and the mozzarella de buffala.    He has danced over (he either runs or dances everywhere.  Walking is so boring), lifted up her shirt the rest of the way, done a quick bongo set on her cheeks and given her a very large zerbert.  Quite possibly his best zerbert ever, it was the perfect combination of moisture, length and pressure.

He then falls down laughing and clapping for himself.

I am beyond horrified.  There is no way you can apologize enough to someone to express the horror I felt.

Did I mention that Bunny was not wearing underwear?

#27 Plant

Every summer, regardless of where you live or how busy you are, grow tomatoes and basil.

Naturally, if you have the space plant more things but these are the bare minimum.  Yes, even if you have the tiniest of balconies.

Learn how to make bruschetta with these ingredients and be willing to share.

# 26 Memorial Day

Give your sincerest thanks to veterans.

Always remember that WWII vets saved the world.

#25 You May Have One Phobia, Anything More Than That And You Are Just Wimpy/Annoying

So this weekend we started building the chicken coop.  Well, that is a lie.  Hubby started building, I merely helped with the design, answered math questions and provided encouragement.  I am all about encouragement (and math if you must know).

We have decided to keep some chickens for the eggs and because we think that bebe boy will get a charge out of them.  No, we are not going to eat the birds themselves -- that is a little too natural, even for me.

The downside of this (brilliant) plan is that I am afraid of birds.  Terrified.  Scared poopless (trying to swear less now that bebe boy can repeat stuff).  I know it is a ridiculous fear but it is a fear nonetheless and I figure I can have one phobia if I want to.

Hubby does not like alligators.  I don't like birds (but I love 'gator handbags and shoes).  Bebe boy, you may have one ridiculous phobia.  But please don't let it be a fear of flying since travel is muy important to your parents.  And you may not also be afraid of elevators since Mommy hates climbing stairs.  But, other than that, quiver on, dear child.

The Femivore's Dilemma

Fabulous article.  God, I love The Times.

The Femivore’s Dilemma - NYTimes.com

www.nytimes.com

Can chickens save the desperate housewife?