1) Pie (it is the day after Thanksgiving)
2) Pizza
3) Taffy (the Nanny)
4) Daddy
4) Juice
I am still no where to be found. Alas.
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Thursday, November 25, 2010
Gratitude - Bebe Boy
So today is Thanksgiving. I am always trying to instill a sense of gratitude in bebe boy. Not that he has everything but, seriously, he has everything and more a little guy could hope for to end up happy, healthy and smart. Having non-addicted, non-crazy parents who live in a developed part of the world is, I swear, 90% of the battle. But that is just me.
So, I am explaining to bebe boy (who turns two next month!) the whole Thanksgiving thing and gratitude. Not sure if he gets it I ask "What makes you happy today?" Here is his list (I swear I am not making this up. I am funny but not THAT funny):
1) Football
2) Poop
3) Toots
4) Taffy (his nanny, who ROCKS and is actually named Stephanie but this has been reduced to Taffy)
5) Jackets
I have now decided I am going to record this every day (until I lose interest).
So, I am explaining to bebe boy (who turns two next month!) the whole Thanksgiving thing and gratitude. Not sure if he gets it I ask "What makes you happy today?" Here is his list (I swear I am not making this up. I am funny but not THAT funny):
1) Football
2) Poop
3) Toots
4) Taffy (his nanny, who ROCKS and is actually named Stephanie but this has been reduced to Taffy)
5) Jackets
I have now decided I am going to record this every day (until I lose interest).
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
The Wonder of Boys
Before I had bebe boy, I thought most of men's craziness was simply upbringing -- they had fewer restrictions and more freedom than girls so they, well, acted crazy. Then, I became a momma of a heavily-loaded testosterone boy and realized that there is NOTHING to nurture, it is all nature. He is simply genetically pre-programmed and I am only here to provide band-aids and kisses.
Anyone who disagrees with me has never raised a boy. Trust me on this one.
Here are some oddities that I have noticed about boys:
** they LOVE their penises. I thought the fascination started at puberty but, nope, we have sonogram photos of the little dudes holding themselves. Yes, in utero. Bebe boy #1 shoves his hand in his diaper to watch a game. Sad but true, started when he was months old. Actually, the first time it happened when he was less than 24 hours old (Cowboy game was on, seriously, we don't miss those in this house even for birth) -- however, I cut him some slack on this one since he was still all bunched up and unable to focus his eyes..
** anything (and I do mean anything) can be used as a bat, a penis extension or a ball. I am told that they will later use anything as a gun but we have yet to reach that point with them.
** they are born with that car sound boys make. You know, the vroom, vroom, screech sound. They start making it long before they play with toys that make it. Bizarre but true.
** a girlfriend of mine had her eardrum ruptured by her 18 month old WHEN HE SHOVED A PLASTIC LIZARD DOWN HER EAR CANAL. Girls don't do that. Boys love their mommas but in a brutal, caveman-ish kind of way.
** they are endlessly fascinated by peeing outside. When I told my brother that we were having a boy the FIRST thing he said was "I can't wait for little dude to whiz off your deck." I (naively) defended my unborn swearing that he would never do something as appalling as that. {Did I mention that I was not only naive but also a little stupid?} My brother's response "Don't be an idiot. I guarantee you Ken pees off the deck and so will little dude. Hell, I even want to and it is not my deck."
Fast forward two years and "the little dude" has done the deed. He was having a little diaper time on the deck (this involves running in circles, harassing the dog and wearing nothing more than a diaper. He prefers naked time but, for reasons that will become perfectly clear momentarily... diaper time is a dodgy affair around these parts). Hubs and I were chatting. Gorgeous Colorado evening. All is right with the world.
We hear the familiar sound of diaper velcro and look over. Bebe boy has whipped off his diaper and is letting it loose over the edge of the deck. He even has the pelvis thrust forward thing down (who knew THAT was inborn?). When he is done, he lets out a huge "aahhhhh" and goes back to playing.
Hubs had to IMMEDIATELY call my brother and announce that the deed had been done at 18 months. Oh the horror.
** Bebe boy is not yet two and yet knocked the stuffing out of Daddy last night with his plastic bat. I am, clearly, not in favor of arming toddlers so my sympathy was lacking. Hubby refuses to get stitches and is now walking around with a Scooby Doo Band Aid across the bridge of his nose.
** as I mentioned above, everything can be a ball or a bat if you just want to be a little creative (candles, zucchini, lemons, onions, cans of hairspray). I think, as adults, men use sports analogies instead of physical substitutions. For example, I call my brother to tell him that we are having another boy and this is his response. "That's great. You got a pitcher and a catcher. Now all you need is a third so you can have a hitter." When I tell Hubs I am pregnant with our second he says "Great! We will go from zone defense to man-on-man coverage."
A simple yahoo would do but noooooo...
Anyone who disagrees with me has never raised a boy. Trust me on this one.
Here are some oddities that I have noticed about boys:
** they LOVE their penises. I thought the fascination started at puberty but, nope, we have sonogram photos of the little dudes holding themselves. Yes, in utero. Bebe boy #1 shoves his hand in his diaper to watch a game. Sad but true, started when he was months old. Actually, the first time it happened when he was less than 24 hours old (Cowboy game was on, seriously, we don't miss those in this house even for birth) -- however, I cut him some slack on this one since he was still all bunched up and unable to focus his eyes..
** anything (and I do mean anything) can be used as a bat, a penis extension or a ball. I am told that they will later use anything as a gun but we have yet to reach that point with them.
** they are born with that car sound boys make. You know, the vroom, vroom, screech sound. They start making it long before they play with toys that make it. Bizarre but true.
** a girlfriend of mine had her eardrum ruptured by her 18 month old WHEN HE SHOVED A PLASTIC LIZARD DOWN HER EAR CANAL. Girls don't do that. Boys love their mommas but in a brutal, caveman-ish kind of way.
** they are endlessly fascinated by peeing outside. When I told my brother that we were having a boy the FIRST thing he said was "I can't wait for little dude to whiz off your deck." I (naively) defended my unborn swearing that he would never do something as appalling as that. {Did I mention that I was not only naive but also a little stupid?} My brother's response "Don't be an idiot. I guarantee you Ken pees off the deck and so will little dude. Hell, I even want to and it is not my deck."
Fast forward two years and "the little dude" has done the deed. He was having a little diaper time on the deck (this involves running in circles, harassing the dog and wearing nothing more than a diaper. He prefers naked time but, for reasons that will become perfectly clear momentarily... diaper time is a dodgy affair around these parts). Hubs and I were chatting. Gorgeous Colorado evening. All is right with the world.
We hear the familiar sound of diaper velcro and look over. Bebe boy has whipped off his diaper and is letting it loose over the edge of the deck. He even has the pelvis thrust forward thing down (who knew THAT was inborn?). When he is done, he lets out a huge "aahhhhh" and goes back to playing.
Hubs had to IMMEDIATELY call my brother and announce that the deed had been done at 18 months. Oh the horror.
** Bebe boy is not yet two and yet knocked the stuffing out of Daddy last night with his plastic bat. I am, clearly, not in favor of arming toddlers so my sympathy was lacking. Hubby refuses to get stitches and is now walking around with a Scooby Doo Band Aid across the bridge of his nose.
** as I mentioned above, everything can be a ball or a bat if you just want to be a little creative (candles, zucchini, lemons, onions, cans of hairspray). I think, as adults, men use sports analogies instead of physical substitutions. For example, I call my brother to tell him that we are having another boy and this is his response. "That's great. You got a pitcher and a catcher. Now all you need is a third so you can have a hitter." When I tell Hubs I am pregnant with our second he says "Great! We will go from zone defense to man-on-man coverage."
A simple yahoo would do but noooooo...
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Poor Emo
Let me start with the fact that I adore my kidlet. He is beautiful, funny, smart, kind and charming. And he has an amazing sense of comedic timing to boot. However, there are times that his precocious-ness is, well, not only embarrassing but also, potentially, fight-inducing.
Today we are walking into Target to buy, of course, baby hangers. I swear I buy baby hangers on a weekly basis but that is not the point.
While we are walking in, Emo-kid is walking out. Let me describe his ensemble so that my (almost) two year old does not look rude. I mean, really, Emo had this one coming.
Burnt orange, skin tight (as in you can tell his religion) capri pants with slashes and holes all over them. Held together with safety pins and slung so low his underwear (tighty whiteys! egads!) are showing. Paired with calf high, multi-buckled boots and an Ed Hardy t-shirt. And, naturally, the dyed black spiky hair, multiple piercings and 'tude.
I mean, really, kid... you don't look like an intellectual/poet/dreamer who is too above this world. You look like a pathetic kid who cuts himself in the bathroom while listening to bad music.
Bebe boy thinks that Emo is, clearly, there for his amusement and is in dire need of attention. And attention he will provide. He is yelling at the top of his lungs (as only a toddler can do): "Mom. Silly. Pants. Wowie. Crazy. Mom. Pants. Silly. Wowie. Silly. Crazy. Pants." Over and over. The only stopping was to laugh hysterically (to the point of falling down) all while jumping up and down and pointing. This was quite possibly the funniest thing he had ever seen. {The only thing that can compare to his level of reaction was when the elephant at the zoo pooped and tooted for approximately 10 minutes straight. That about sent bebe boy over the edge}.
Of course, the more I try to shush him the louder he becomes because NO DOUBT I SIMPLY CAN'T SEE EMO. So, please, baby, point him out so that everyone can look at him. I pick him up and turn him away thinking he might get distracted by something, anything else. No can do. He simply arches himself backwards/upside down and continues his antics.
Emo is horrified and angry. I swear his internal debate was "Should I go to my car and cut myself or should I attack the lady and her kid?"
However, I assume ole Emo opted for self-mutilation because, well, he weighed about 75 pounds and appeared to suffer from an iron deficiency -- even me the very pregnant pacifist could have taken him on. Hell, my toddler (who downed a 5 ounce rib eye last night) could have taken him.
Poor Emo. Got his ass verbally kicked by a toddler. THAT is something to ponder while listening to Marilyn Manson.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
When You Come Home, There is a Dead Mouse in a Diaper
So, I am the first person to admit it: I am over the top about everything. It is not fake enthusiasm, it is genuine and deep. Part of it stems from the fact that I am crazy-optimistic and part of it is simply that I was born under a happy star (so was my son which is one of my favorite parts of his little character). Besides, if you have to go through life as either Tigger or Eeyore, why not choose a little striped bounce?
Here is the downside of happiness and enthusiasm when you are parenting... the little dudes get used to it and want more, more, more kudos, random hugs and high fives for. every. single. thing. they. do.
Normally, I don't find this to be an atrocious behavior or expectation. The fact that he loads me and my pockets up with rocks, leaves, used gum, golf balls and handfuls of dirt is simply expected and accepted. I wanted a boy and I got all boy. Quit your bitching and be grateful.
This morning was an entirely different story.
My preggo self had settled onto the sofa for an exciting round of diaper folding [yes, I am THAT mom who cloth diapers and grows organic food. I don't judge you (well, only a little) for your Pampers and McDonalds, stop harping at me about "it's good enough for everyone else, why do you have to be so picky?"].
I hear bebe boy squeal with delight in the utility room so I assume he has found the half eaten sponge football that I keep trying to hide from him. {Don't judge me, this thing is nasty -- it has been through three dogs but when "faball" goes missing a full-on clearly-the-house-is-on-fire-and-the-dog-and-the-cherry-tomatoes-are-still-inside meltdown ensues so faball will remain a fixture in our house until bebe boy grows attached to something else. There are only so many hills upon which I am willing to die, Marine, and a half-eaten Nerf ball does not even come close to the list}.
Little Sweetness (Daddy is the original Sweetness) comes toddling toward me clearly THRILLED with his find. I don't see faball so I assume that he has found the mini-Stonehenge I am erecting from all the rocks that I find in our washing machine.
Then he presents to me... with all the elegance of royalty... A. DEAD. MOUSE.
Mother of God, THIS is where I draw the line of motherhood. I accept avocado in my hair. I accept Elizabeth Mitchell on my stereo. I {grimly} accept never again having a quickie on the living room floor mid-afternoon. I accept rubber ducks and wind-up lobsters in my Jacuzzi tub. Hell, I even accept having my pockets loaded down with stones a la Virginia Woolf.
But I draw the line at handling dead rodents.
So, I start screaming (over and over and over because clearly the problem will be solved at great volume and with maniacal repetition) "drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it, drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it, drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it, drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it, drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it." Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
I, essentially, in my panic, have given myself an oh-so-pleasant combination of Tourette Syndrome, bi-polar syndrome (the manic side) and I-have-hearing-loss-but-I-am-the-only-person-on-the-planet-who-does-not-realize-it. Yep, I was quite the femme fatale this morning. Envy Sweetness.
Bebe boy is clearly perplexed. I clap, thank him and give him high fives for dead dandelions, wads of dog hair and used gum but, for the best gift EVER, he gets nothing other than a screaming mimi jumping on the sofa?
So, he keeps yelling louder and louder: "Mamama {Yes, I think it is cool that I am called an over-the-top moniker like Mamama with the slightest hint of a French accent. And, yes, Bitter Berthas, he came up with it on his own} so yummy. Look, yummy, Mamama."
{Don't get too disgusted at this point. He has yet to grasp a full range of compliments so EVERYTHING that he likes is called "yummy" from dead mice to smoked gouda to dogs to the recycling truck. Though, I must admit is is both adorable and ego-boosting to be called "yummy" first thing in the morning by such a sincere and enamored audience. When he claps for me to boot... well, I am on the floor in a puddle}. But back to this morning which was anything but yummy.
Eventually, he tires of my top-volume soliloquy and drops the dead beast. Happily, it lands on a diaper.
This is the part where I look like a bad mom. Prepare yourself.
I am afraid that he is going to pick it up again and, egads, throw it at me or the dog. So, I quickly scoop him up and stick him outside. It is cold. Really cold. And he is in the midst of naked time. I know, I know. I did warn you that this is where Mamama goes bad.
But I figure 1) it is only for a minute 2) you don't actually get sick from being cold and 3) the 150 pound hairy dog is out there too so they can cuddle if he gets cold while I deal with the mouse. And, yes, I accept the fact that I am HOPING the dog will offer my sweet child comfort and warmth while he is outside a la Tiny Tim (and a naked Tiny Tim at that) and I am inside a la Ebenezer ensures that I will never be Mother-of-the-Year (but I have Mamama-of-the-Year wrapped up, not to brag).
I grab my Williams Sonoma tongs (best tongs ever -- which is not the point of this blog but good to know anyway) and grab both the mouse and the diaper it serendipitously landed upon. The carcass package goes on the kitchen counter and I herd bebe and the dog back in the house. {See, I am a good mom, I did not take the time to draw a bubble bath or polish my nails}.
For the briefest of moments, I actually thought about dealing with Mr Bubonic myself but then realized that I got married so I would never have to deal with tires, furnace filters or dead rodents. This one gets outsourced to Daddy-O. I was in labor for 40 hours, you can deal with dead nasties.
I am 32 weeks pregnant so he is more than willing to answer his phone even if he is in the middle of a business meeting. And, yes, I could have waited -- it is not like Mr Bubonic with Rigor Mortis was going anywhere -- but we all handle emergencies differently. And please don't say that this was not an emergency ... crises are in the eye of the beholder. And I beholded this as a full-on-eMERgency!
But I will {begrudgingly} concede the fact that, just perhaps, my response to his "hello" was just a leeee-tle on the dramatic side.
me (in a very high-pitched squeal): "Mayday! Mayday! Huge catastrophe narrowly averted. Baby, dog and the threatened area have been cordoned off and decontaminated. Their debrief will begin once you have been fully appraised of the situation."
completely baffled hubby: "WTF are you talking about?"
me: "When you come home, there is a dead mouse in a diaper on the counter."
Here is the downside of happiness and enthusiasm when you are parenting... the little dudes get used to it and want more, more, more kudos, random hugs and high fives for. every. single. thing. they. do.
Normally, I don't find this to be an atrocious behavior or expectation. The fact that he loads me and my pockets up with rocks, leaves, used gum, golf balls and handfuls of dirt is simply expected and accepted. I wanted a boy and I got all boy. Quit your bitching and be grateful.
This morning was an entirely different story.
My preggo self had settled onto the sofa for an exciting round of diaper folding [yes, I am THAT mom who cloth diapers and grows organic food. I don't judge you (well, only a little) for your Pampers and McDonalds, stop harping at me about "it's good enough for everyone else, why do you have to be so picky?"].
I hear bebe boy squeal with delight in the utility room so I assume he has found the half eaten sponge football that I keep trying to hide from him. {Don't judge me, this thing is nasty -- it has been through three dogs but when "faball" goes missing a full-on clearly-the-house-is-on-fire-and-the-dog-and-the-cherry-tomatoes-are-still-inside meltdown ensues so faball will remain a fixture in our house until bebe boy grows attached to something else. There are only so many hills upon which I am willing to die, Marine, and a half-eaten Nerf ball does not even come close to the list}.
Little Sweetness (Daddy is the original Sweetness) comes toddling toward me clearly THRILLED with his find. I don't see faball so I assume that he has found the mini-Stonehenge I am erecting from all the rocks that I find in our washing machine.
Then he presents to me... with all the elegance of royalty... A. DEAD. MOUSE.
Mother of God, THIS is where I draw the line of motherhood. I accept avocado in my hair. I accept Elizabeth Mitchell on my stereo. I {grimly} accept never again having a quickie on the living room floor mid-afternoon. I accept rubber ducks and wind-up lobsters in my Jacuzzi tub. Hell, I even accept having my pockets loaded down with stones a la Virginia Woolf.
But I draw the line at handling dead rodents.
So, I start screaming (over and over and over because clearly the problem will be solved at great volume and with maniacal repetition) "drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it, drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it, drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it, drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it, drop it, put it down, leave it, oh god, oh god, oh god, drop it, put it down, leave it." Wash. Rinse. Repeat.
I, essentially, in my panic, have given myself an oh-so-pleasant combination of Tourette Syndrome, bi-polar syndrome (the manic side) and I-have-hearing-loss-but-I-am-the-only-person-on-the-planet-who-does-not-realize-it. Yep, I was quite the femme fatale this morning. Envy Sweetness.
Bebe boy is clearly perplexed. I clap, thank him and give him high fives for dead dandelions, wads of dog hair and used gum but, for the best gift EVER, he gets nothing other than a screaming mimi jumping on the sofa?
So, he keeps yelling louder and louder: "Mamama {Yes, I think it is cool that I am called an over-the-top moniker like Mamama with the slightest hint of a French accent. And, yes, Bitter Berthas, he came up with it on his own} so yummy. Look, yummy, Mamama."
{Don't get too disgusted at this point. He has yet to grasp a full range of compliments so EVERYTHING that he likes is called "yummy" from dead mice to smoked gouda to dogs to the recycling truck. Though, I must admit is is both adorable and ego-boosting to be called "yummy" first thing in the morning by such a sincere and enamored audience. When he claps for me to boot... well, I am on the floor in a puddle}. But back to this morning which was anything but yummy.
Eventually, he tires of my top-volume soliloquy and drops the dead beast. Happily, it lands on a diaper.
This is the part where I look like a bad mom. Prepare yourself.
I am afraid that he is going to pick it up again and, egads, throw it at me or the dog. So, I quickly scoop him up and stick him outside. It is cold. Really cold. And he is in the midst of naked time. I know, I know. I did warn you that this is where Mamama goes bad.
But I figure 1) it is only for a minute 2) you don't actually get sick from being cold and 3) the 150 pound hairy dog is out there too so they can cuddle if he gets cold while I deal with the mouse. And, yes, I accept the fact that I am HOPING the dog will offer my sweet child comfort and warmth while he is outside a la Tiny Tim (and a naked Tiny Tim at that) and I am inside a la Ebenezer ensures that I will never be Mother-of-the-Year (but I have Mamama-of-the-Year wrapped up, not to brag).
I grab my Williams Sonoma tongs (best tongs ever -- which is not the point of this blog but good to know anyway) and grab both the mouse and the diaper it serendipitously landed upon. The carcass package goes on the kitchen counter and I herd bebe and the dog back in the house. {See, I am a good mom, I did not take the time to draw a bubble bath or polish my nails}.
For the briefest of moments, I actually thought about dealing with Mr Bubonic myself but then realized that I got married so I would never have to deal with tires, furnace filters or dead rodents. This one gets outsourced to Daddy-O. I was in labor for 40 hours, you can deal with dead nasties.
I am 32 weeks pregnant so he is more than willing to answer his phone even if he is in the middle of a business meeting. And, yes, I could have waited -- it is not like Mr Bubonic with Rigor Mortis was going anywhere -- but we all handle emergencies differently. And please don't say that this was not an emergency ... crises are in the eye of the beholder. And I beholded this as a full-on-eMERgency!
But I will {begrudgingly} concede the fact that, just perhaps, my response to his "hello" was just a leeee-tle on the dramatic side.
me (in a very high-pitched squeal): "Mayday! Mayday! Huge catastrophe narrowly averted. Baby, dog and the threatened area have been cordoned off and decontaminated. Their debrief will begin once you have been fully appraised of the situation."
completely baffled hubby: "WTF are you talking about?"
me: "When you come home, there is a dead mouse in a diaper on the counter."
Thursday, November 4, 2010
What We Believe
Taken from the back of the Zum Bar soap catalog
We believe in being in the mood and running in the nude.
We believe in second hand soap.
We believe it's smart to know the rules so you can break them.
We believe that good juju is the secret ingredient.
We believe in dogs in the workplace.
We believe everything is better when ordered extra dirty.
We believe in croute au fromage.
We believe you will see a monkey every day.
We believe in sweating with friends.
We believe that Zum Bum should be in every bathroom.
We believe the candy bowl should always be full.
We believe in dog day afternoons.
We believe measuring is overrated.
We believe in full moon Fridays.
We believe in turning the volume up to 11.
We believe that having to shout "we're green" means you're not really green.
We believe that cheap red wine is better than no wine at all.
We believe that artichokes may be nature's perfect food... actually, we believe cheese dip may be the perfect food.
We believe in hugging old people.
We believe plants make the best perfumes.
We believe snow cones are best when spiked.
We believe in shakin' our booties.
We believe in traveling in packs.
We believe in vegetarians and carnivores.
We believe there is nothing real about a maraschino cherry.
We believe the louder the music, the better the soap.
We believe if it comes from a grape, it's good.
We believe in afternoon delight, shahi paneer korma and full body massages.
We believe trial sizes are cool.
We believe that real and saggy are sexy.
We believe we can make people happier by using our products.
We believe humans could live on bread, cheese, wine, chocolate and avocados.
We believe in warm, wet places.
We believe Zum bars are best when used with a friend.
We believe pumpkin is not an essential oil.
We believe in not wasting a single ounce of soap.
We believe melt and pour is for amateurs.
We believe in wearing flip flops to work.
We believe movies are always better with martinis and recliners.
We believe in your mom.
We believe in the kiss-and-make-up club, not the fight club.
We believe in 3 o'clock snacks.
We believe plants heal.
We believe in real boobs and fake fur.
We believe in talking about our "shows" on Monday.
We believe in long, hot baths.
We believe in wearing black turtlenecks in the winter every day.
We believe the best ideas come from meetings in the masturbatorium.
We believe in Christopher Guest movies.
We believe in pure bred dogs, pound puppies and rescue pooches.
We believe we learned the truth at 17.
We believe cowboy boots can be worn with any outfit.
We believe in good, good, good vibrations.
We believe in "one in, one out."
We believe clowns are scary.
We believe in zumba.
We believe in that ass and you what ass we're talking about.
We believe the more dogs, the better the mojo.
We believe in being in the mood and running in the nude.
We believe in second hand soap.
We believe it's smart to know the rules so you can break them.
We believe that good juju is the secret ingredient.
We believe in dogs in the workplace.
We believe everything is better when ordered extra dirty.
We believe in croute au fromage.
We believe you will see a monkey every day.
We believe in sweating with friends.
We believe that Zum Bum should be in every bathroom.
We believe the candy bowl should always be full.
We believe in dog day afternoons.
We believe measuring is overrated.
We believe in full moon Fridays.
We believe in turning the volume up to 11.
We believe that having to shout "we're green" means you're not really green.
We believe that cheap red wine is better than no wine at all.
We believe that artichokes may be nature's perfect food... actually, we believe cheese dip may be the perfect food.
We believe in hugging old people.
We believe plants make the best perfumes.
We believe snow cones are best when spiked.
We believe in shakin' our booties.
We believe in traveling in packs.
We believe in vegetarians and carnivores.
We believe there is nothing real about a maraschino cherry.
We believe the louder the music, the better the soap.
We believe if it comes from a grape, it's good.
We believe in afternoon delight, shahi paneer korma and full body massages.
We believe trial sizes are cool.
We believe that real and saggy are sexy.
We believe we can make people happier by using our products.
We believe humans could live on bread, cheese, wine, chocolate and avocados.
We believe in warm, wet places.
We believe Zum bars are best when used with a friend.
We believe pumpkin is not an essential oil.
We believe in not wasting a single ounce of soap.
We believe melt and pour is for amateurs.
We believe in wearing flip flops to work.
We believe movies are always better with martinis and recliners.
We believe in your mom.
We believe in the kiss-and-make-up club, not the fight club.
We believe in 3 o'clock snacks.
We believe plants heal.
We believe in real boobs and fake fur.
We believe in talking about our "shows" on Monday.
We believe in long, hot baths.
We believe in wearing black turtlenecks in the winter every day.
We believe the best ideas come from meetings in the masturbatorium.
We believe in Christopher Guest movies.
We believe in pure bred dogs, pound puppies and rescue pooches.
We believe we learned the truth at 17.
We believe cowboy boots can be worn with any outfit.
We believe in good, good, good vibrations.
We believe in "one in, one out."
We believe clowns are scary.
We believe in zumba.
We believe in that ass and you what ass we're talking about.
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Thursday, September 2, 2010
Why, Yes, I Do Shake My Macarenas. Thank You For Asking.
I had baby boy #1 in a baby music class. He liked it enough (on the plus side, there was dancing ... on the negative side, no snacks) but I hated it. Hence, the "had" part of the previous statement. I really did give it a shot but I really, really loathed this class. Perhaps you will see why after this story.
The lady who taught it was more than slightly crazed. Now hear me out before you get all judgmental about my judgmental-ness. I think anyone who willingly wear sweatpants to work every day and sings
"Bye, bye books.
It's time to go away.
Bye, bye books.
It's time to go away.
Bye, bye books.
It's time to go away.
We'll play with you
Another day."
with such gusto must, by definition, be slightly touched. {Honestly, she made the random waiter/wannabe opera singer at Macaroni Grill look stifled}.
Now don't get me wrong: I love the idea of happy, singing people but she was just as alarmed at the fact that I do not sing "Bye Bye ___" to every object in our house as I am at the fact that she DOES sing to inanimate objects (her husband must LOVE this habit. Like a gum smacker but louder). We were just completely and utterly opposite in our views on randomly bursting into song about blocks/bottles/strollers and the attention these objects require from me to thrive in their role as, well, random household objects.
My issue (in addition to her false logic and poor arguing skills that I will explain in a bit) is that 1) I did all the work for this class and 2) I sucked at it. As in I needed a remedial class and that is not acceptable. Did she NOT get the memo as to who I am? I am not a remedial kind of girl.
Furthermore, bebe boy did not have to sing, I did. I never remembered my glasses so I could never see the cheat sheets on the wall unless I wore my prescription sunglasses indoors which, at 9 in the morning, makes me look like "Strung Out Barbie" and I don't want to have my baby taken away from me by the government. Crazy Lady actually lectured me once about using the cheat sheets. Seriously, lectured ME.
Crazy: "Didn't you study the songs in advance?"
me: "Are you kidding me?"
Crazy: "I gave you a CD the first day. You should practice them daily."
me: "Are you kidding me? You expect me to study for a one-year-old's music class? We oink in here."
Crazy: "Have you EVEN listened to the CD or laminated your barnyard animal art? Have you hung it on the wall yet?"
me: "Are you kidding me? We, literally, oink in here. And, furthermore, you think I will have laminated barnyard animals ON. MY. WALLS?"
Crazy: "Yes, I do. How else will your child go to college?"
me: "Ummm, he has got a pretty good gene pool. Kind of like beating a fast horse. To make a barnyard animal reference that I imagine you to be very fond of." {I still find that to be a great one-liner. I don't understand why she did not even chuckle}.
Crazy: "WHERE IS YOUR BAG OF SUPPLIES? DO YOU EVEN SHAKE YOUR MACARENAS?"
me: "Do you find anything humorous about that question?"
Crazy: "No."
me: "Pity. It is a good one."
Crazy: "Are you kidding me?"
So, she is asking me several classes later if we are doing summer classes. I (perhaps a little TOO QUICKLY) say (okay, scream) "No. It is summer and we don't do summer school in my family."
She is not amused with my lack of enthusiasm and asks me how I expected Junior to go to college without this class. Like "E I E I O" is a pre-req. SAT? Check. GPA? Check. EIEIO? Check.
"I have several graduate degrees and I did not take music classes. He'll be fine just, well, being a one-year-old this summer and doing his 'Oh how I love to eat cheese' dance. No lamination required."
"You know that by making this decision, he will never be good at math," threatens Crazy Lady.
Now this is where I draw the line! I will accept (not graciously, mind you) the fact that I suck at singing and all things musical/creative. I will fully acknowledge that I did not prep properly for this weekly torture session. But I. WILL. NOT. ACCEPT. my children not being good at math. I don't care if I have to beat a love of numbers into them (sounds effective, no?), they will NEVER brag about not being able to calculate a tip. (There is a blog coming up on that very subject. But as a teaser 1) calculating percentages is not math and 2) no one would brag about being illiterate but being bad at math is not something to be ashamed of? Au contraire! One of my personal pet peeves. Ugghhh).
I calmly respond "Clearly this is a case of 'post hoc, ergo propter hoc,' a logical fallacy."
Apparently, it was only clear to me since she simply stared at me. After an uncomfortable silence I continued "Music classes are clearly NOT essential to success in mathematics, though some studies have shown them to be linked. Correlation is not causation, however."
Honestly, I thought that I could not have been more clear. I rested my case. She stared at me. Hummm, must further clarify my position.
"See, my friend, I have a Masters degree in Mathematics, with an emphasis in logic and statistics, as you can clearly see by my superior arguing skills. And, I have had no musical training whatsoever as you can clearly see by my performance in this class. A class designed for one-year-olds that I am, quite assuredly, a miserable and public failure at. Henceforth, music classes are NOT mandatory for mathematical prowess. Thus, my earlier statement of post hoc, ergo propter hoc."
I, literally, sighed with contentment. Perhaps I even purred. Happy in the knowledge that I had set her straight and that she would no longer declare this barnyard nonsense essential to future algebraic bliss.
No doubt I have much better math skills than I do people skills since I was completely ill-prepared for her frustration/anger with me. She never invited me back to summer school or, hell, even fall classes. Alas.
For the record, in case you were curious, my barnyard bag o' goodies was found (cheat sheets and all) months later in the trunk of my car. It went into the recycling bin while I sang:
The lady who taught it was more than slightly crazed. Now hear me out before you get all judgmental about my judgmental-ness. I think anyone who willingly wear sweatpants to work every day and sings
"Bye, bye books.
It's time to go away.
Bye, bye books.
It's time to go away.
Bye, bye books.
It's time to go away.
We'll play with you
Another day."
with such gusto must, by definition, be slightly touched. {Honestly, she made the random waiter/wannabe opera singer at Macaroni Grill look stifled}.
Now don't get me wrong: I love the idea of happy, singing people but she was just as alarmed at the fact that I do not sing "Bye Bye ___" to every object in our house as I am at the fact that she DOES sing to inanimate objects (her husband must LOVE this habit. Like a gum smacker but louder). We were just completely and utterly opposite in our views on randomly bursting into song about blocks/bottles/strollers and the attention these objects require from me to thrive in their role as, well, random household objects.
My issue (in addition to her false logic and poor arguing skills that I will explain in a bit) is that 1) I did all the work for this class and 2) I sucked at it. As in I needed a remedial class and that is not acceptable. Did she NOT get the memo as to who I am? I am not a remedial kind of girl.
Furthermore, bebe boy did not have to sing, I did. I never remembered my glasses so I could never see the cheat sheets on the wall unless I wore my prescription sunglasses indoors which, at 9 in the morning, makes me look like "Strung Out Barbie" and I don't want to have my baby taken away from me by the government. Crazy Lady actually lectured me once about using the cheat sheets. Seriously, lectured ME.
Crazy: "Didn't you study the songs in advance?"
me: "Are you kidding me?"
Crazy: "I gave you a CD the first day. You should practice them daily."
me: "Are you kidding me? You expect me to study for a one-year-old's music class? We oink in here."
Crazy: "Have you EVEN listened to the CD or laminated your barnyard animal art? Have you hung it on the wall yet?"
me: "Are you kidding me? We, literally, oink in here. And, furthermore, you think I will have laminated barnyard animals ON. MY. WALLS?"
Crazy: "Yes, I do. How else will your child go to college?"
me: "Ummm, he has got a pretty good gene pool. Kind of like beating a fast horse. To make a barnyard animal reference that I imagine you to be very fond of." {I still find that to be a great one-liner. I don't understand why she did not even chuckle}.
Crazy: "WHERE IS YOUR BAG OF SUPPLIES? DO YOU EVEN SHAKE YOUR MACARENAS?"
me: "Do you find anything humorous about that question?"
Crazy: "No."
me: "Pity. It is a good one."
Crazy: "Are you kidding me?"
So, she is asking me several classes later if we are doing summer classes. I (perhaps a little TOO QUICKLY) say (okay, scream) "No. It is summer and we don't do summer school in my family."
She is not amused with my lack of enthusiasm and asks me how I expected Junior to go to college without this class. Like "E I E I O" is a pre-req. SAT? Check. GPA? Check. EIEIO? Check.
"I have several graduate degrees and I did not take music classes. He'll be fine just, well, being a one-year-old this summer and doing his 'Oh how I love to eat cheese' dance. No lamination required."
"You know that by making this decision, he will never be good at math," threatens Crazy Lady.
Now this is where I draw the line! I will accept (not graciously, mind you) the fact that I suck at singing and all things musical/creative. I will fully acknowledge that I did not prep properly for this weekly torture session. But I. WILL. NOT. ACCEPT. my children not being good at math. I don't care if I have to beat a love of numbers into them (sounds effective, no?), they will NEVER brag about not being able to calculate a tip. (There is a blog coming up on that very subject. But as a teaser 1) calculating percentages is not math and 2) no one would brag about being illiterate but being bad at math is not something to be ashamed of? Au contraire! One of my personal pet peeves. Ugghhh).
I calmly respond "Clearly this is a case of 'post hoc, ergo propter hoc,' a logical fallacy."
Apparently, it was only clear to me since she simply stared at me. After an uncomfortable silence I continued "Music classes are clearly NOT essential to success in mathematics, though some studies have shown them to be linked. Correlation is not causation, however."
Honestly, I thought that I could not have been more clear. I rested my case. She stared at me. Hummm, must further clarify my position.
"See, my friend, I have a Masters degree in Mathematics, with an emphasis in logic and statistics, as you can clearly see by my superior arguing skills. And, I have had no musical training whatsoever as you can clearly see by my performance in this class. A class designed for one-year-olds that I am, quite assuredly, a miserable and public failure at. Henceforth, music classes are NOT mandatory for mathematical prowess. Thus, my earlier statement of post hoc, ergo propter hoc."
I, literally, sighed with contentment. Perhaps I even purred. Happy in the knowledge that I had set her straight and that she would no longer declare this barnyard nonsense essential to future algebraic bliss.
No doubt I have much better math skills than I do people skills since I was completely ill-prepared for her frustration/anger with me. She never invited me back to summer school or, hell, even fall classes. Alas.
For the record, in case you were curious, my barnyard bag o' goodies was found (cheat sheets and all) months later in the trunk of my car. It went into the recycling bin while I sang:
"Bye, bye random bag of barnyard crap.
It's time to go away.
Bye, bye random bag of barnyard crap.
It's time to go away.
Bye, bye random bag of barnyard crap.
It's time to go away.
We'll shake our macarenas with you
Another day."
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Random Stuff
"We are eating dinner. That means, sit down, limit your dancing and please keep your belly out of the barbecue sauce."
"It's a little like religion and a lot like sex, you should never know when you're going to get it next" sung of gumbo by none other than Jimmy Buffet
"That baby would never make it as a caveman, he is too loud. And chubby."
"Man, that kid has a huge head. He is like a human Bobble-head." {Sadly, this is somewhat true. The boy is in a 4T hat at 20 months. What can I say? Big head, big brain. But he does not look like a Bobble-head nor does he fall over from the sheer weight of it. No worries}.
"That woman is the social equivalent of waterboarding" (said about my mother by my hubby).
"You know I only shovel the coal on your crazy train. Hell, I don't even get to ring the bell." (said by Hubby about me. Not nice but true and funny).
We took the little guy to his first baseball game (last weekend). He has always been obsessed with all things ball-related but it is at a crescendo now. He insists on wearing his baseball glove at all times and everything is a bat. If he is practicing his swing with a candle/umbrella/zucchini (we moved the huge plastic bat outside. Clearly, this has not impeded the process), he wears the glove on his head. Since I have taken all the balls out of the main level of our house (and this was no small undertaking), he has had to find viable ball-substitutes. Therefore, our lemon trees are bald and I have been hit in the ear with a very large onion. For the record, onions hurt. A lot.
"It's a little like religion and a lot like sex, you should never know when you're going to get it next" sung of gumbo by none other than Jimmy Buffet
"That baby would never make it as a caveman, he is too loud. And chubby."
"Man, that kid has a huge head. He is like a human Bobble-head." {Sadly, this is somewhat true. The boy is in a 4T hat at 20 months. What can I say? Big head, big brain. But he does not look like a Bobble-head nor does he fall over from the sheer weight of it. No worries}.
"That woman is the social equivalent of waterboarding" (said about my mother by my hubby).
"You know I only shovel the coal on your crazy train. Hell, I don't even get to ring the bell." (said by Hubby about me. Not nice but true and funny).
We took the little guy to his first baseball game (last weekend). He has always been obsessed with all things ball-related but it is at a crescendo now. He insists on wearing his baseball glove at all times and everything is a bat. If he is practicing his swing with a candle/umbrella/zucchini (we moved the huge plastic bat outside. Clearly, this has not impeded the process), he wears the glove on his head. Since I have taken all the balls out of the main level of our house (and this was no small undertaking), he has had to find viable ball-substitutes. Therefore, our lemon trees are bald and I have been hit in the ear with a very large onion. For the record, onions hurt. A lot.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
How Lovely. You Must Be So Proud.
At Christmas, I am, against my will, chatting with a loser {and it takes me a LONG time to declare someone an 'untouchable.' Trust me on this one, she defines the word 'yucky.' No worries on her reading this and getting offended because, as you will see, reading clearly is not her forte. It may not even be a skill she possesses. On some level this makes me really sad, on another level she is so past creepy that I simply don't care. And it kills me to say that ... And, besides, she found NOTHING odd or shameful about this conversation. Months later I STILL feel dirty from it. But, I, well, have standards and dreams for my boys (yes, even the one in utero -- with as much as he wiggles, I am guessing trapeze artist).
{Small sidebar: Boys, if I EVER have this conversation or one akin to it with anyone, expect a bill. I am keeping (or will keep, once I get organized) a running tab of the salmon, spinach, DHA-fortified milk and bok choy that you have eaten on my watch. If you turn out to be idiots, I ASSURE you, you will get a bill for all the brain food that I clearly wasted my money on. Backdated. With interest. Loan-shark-esque interest at that. Don't say you weren't warned}.
Feeling much better for having released that threat to the universe.
This is the conversation:
me: "So how is your son?" {This poor kid has lived with God-only-knows how many people and has been taken away by the great state of Texas. Twice.}
loser mom: "Good. He's 19. I think. Maybe 21"
{How the f do you not know how old your child is? And not even to the nearest year? Honestly, this is how he ended up like he did: his mom thinks (and, yes, I use that word loosely) he might be 19 or 21? "Well, I think it is an odd number, could be prime, might be divisible by 3...." What the hell is wrong with you, lady (yet another term I use loosely}.
me: "How lovely. What is he doing now?"
loser: "He is thinking about going back to school and getting his GED." (And, yes, I get the irony of leaving to school to go back to school to get a piece of paper that says "I dropped out but might be functionally literate nonetheless. Please hire me.")
me: "Of course he is. How lovely."
{Has anyone else ever noticed that every drop-out is simply "too smart for school" according to the parents? I will admit it here and now: I will refuse to accept/admit/acknowledge the fact that my kids are morons even if it is blaring in my face but, seriously, explain to me the logic in the statement "He was too smart for school. The teachers were jealous of his intellect. So he dropped out."
Honest to God, I know a LOT of smart people and some downright brilliant people and somehow they all managed to graduate from high school. Without fanfare or major cause for celebration. Just a piece of stale cake and a pat on the back.
Not that I am bitter, I don't really think high school graduation requires some kind of major hoo-haw or three-day pagan ritual celebration. It is HIGH SCHOOL not NASA's astronaut program, for crap's sake.
And, please fortheloveofgawd, I am begging you NOT to tell me one. more. time. "Bill Gates dropped out of school and look where he is."
1) he willingly left college, not the 8th grade
2) he left Harvard rather than being booted out by the Pigsknuckle Public Education System
3) not to be too much of a statistician, but Gates defies all odds on many levels
4) if your kid ends up as Bill Gates (or even manages to stay out of prison), I will personally tutor him to get his GED (and I loathe tutoring, especially tutoring morons) and, finally,
5) post hoc, ergo propter hoc (correlation, not causation for those of you who did not take Latin or a half dozen logic classes).
Yes, I realize that that was a really long non-sequitor and you have my apologies. But, once again, it is my blog so nanner-nanner-nanner if you don't like it. It is funny and free. Back on task now.}
In case you don't recall I am standing in a kitchen, wishing I were anywhere else, talking to a loser.
me: "What does he plan to do for a job?"
loser: "He feels like he has three choices."
me: "How lovely; options are good. And they are?"
And I SWEAR TO YOU, I am NOT making this up.
loser: "Rodeo clown. Professional wrestler. Porn star."
{I have a frighteningly long pause with, I fear, my mouth ajar}
me: "How lovely. You must be so proud."
Friday, July 23, 2010
Diggity! (or Why Your Momma Talks to Homeless People)
Well, by the time you are reading this, my sweet boy(s), you will have figured out that your mom loves to talk (all state in high school, not to brag). However, in addition to chatting to the usual suspects, Mommy has real conversations with the coffee place people, the farmers at the market (which, I swear, is why we always get the BEST tomatoes), etc. However, I also think that it is important to connect with those people on the edge of society. Please don't ever humiliate me by thinking you are better than other people. You have been given a zillion things and opportunities that most people only dream of. Until you know someone else's story, do not make assumptions about them. And never think you are better. But by the grace of God go you (well, God and Momma because I assure you, you will never be homeless on my watch).
But, anyway, back to the point.
Don't panic, I don't follow homeless men down back alleys and I avoid suspicious characters completely (Daddy would throw a fit). But I do have quite the rapport with the slightly touched guy who collects cans around the University of Denver (and I mean he carries hundreds if not THOUSANDS on this Asian bamboo stick contraption across his shoulders and zooms around on his bike -- the guy must be in the best cardio shape of any homeless guy ever. And. he. does. it. at. altitude.) You would not know he is off until he swears to you that he is on DU's payroll as the official can collector. Now the school is all about "A Private School for the Common Good" but hiring a can collector seems extreme even for DU. And, if he does get paid for this, I really want some of my tuition money back. Seriously. Write me a check.
Anyway, this posting is not about that guy. There is another homeless guy I chat with. He loves my ass (what can I say?) and often wears pants the color of orange sherbet. And they are always immaculate. Somehow I have complete access to a washer and dryer as well as a dozen dry cleaners within five miles of the abode and I always have avocado or spinach on my clothes. This guy lives on the street and has USMC style creases. Clearly, he does not have an affectionate toddler who loves to eat but still... it just seems wrong.
Anyway, back to the point...
When I got pregnant the second time, I knew before I actually missed my period because I fully believe in those Test Five Days Earlier! pregnancy tests. Yes, I know it is mildly obsessive but it is the only thing I am anal about so cut me some slack (well, that and eating organically). And besides I only test if I feel that I am pregnant and, for the record, I have never been wrong. So there.
Back to the point again...
So, I test positively on Saturday and it is Monday. I know I am not showing because I have been pregnant for approximately an hour. Sherbie comes zooming up to me to walk me to class (I LOVE that, by the way) and this is our conversation:
Sherbie: Your ass is looking mighty fine today. As usual.
me: Thank you, sir. Your pants are nicely pressed. As usual.
Sherbie: Thank you, miss. I have some news for you and about you. I had a vision, if you will.
me: Oh really? Please share.
Sherbie: 1) You're pregnant.
me: Uh-huh.
Sherbie: 2) And it's a boy.
me: Uh-huh. (But there are 19 boys in Hub's family and 3 girls. Of course it is a boy. Not that he knows the family tree. But still).
Sherbie: 3) And you're gonna name him Diggity.
me: This, my friend, is where we part ways.
However, I was/am pregnant. It is a boy (we found out today). And, yes, his final prediction/vision was correct. We have given him the call sign of Diggity.
But, anyway, back to the point.
Don't panic, I don't follow homeless men down back alleys and I avoid suspicious characters completely (Daddy would throw a fit). But I do have quite the rapport with the slightly touched guy who collects cans around the University of Denver (and I mean he carries hundreds if not THOUSANDS on this Asian bamboo stick contraption across his shoulders and zooms around on his bike -- the guy must be in the best cardio shape of any homeless guy ever. And. he. does. it. at. altitude.) You would not know he is off until he swears to you that he is on DU's payroll as the official can collector. Now the school is all about "A Private School for the Common Good" but hiring a can collector seems extreme even for DU. And, if he does get paid for this, I really want some of my tuition money back. Seriously. Write me a check.
Anyway, this posting is not about that guy. There is another homeless guy I chat with. He loves my ass (what can I say?) and often wears pants the color of orange sherbet. And they are always immaculate. Somehow I have complete access to a washer and dryer as well as a dozen dry cleaners within five miles of the abode and I always have avocado or spinach on my clothes. This guy lives on the street and has USMC style creases. Clearly, he does not have an affectionate toddler who loves to eat but still... it just seems wrong.
Anyway, back to the point...
When I got pregnant the second time, I knew before I actually missed my period because I fully believe in those Test Five Days Earlier! pregnancy tests. Yes, I know it is mildly obsessive but it is the only thing I am anal about so cut me some slack (well, that and eating organically). And besides I only test if I feel that I am pregnant and, for the record, I have never been wrong. So there.
Back to the point again...
So, I test positively on Saturday and it is Monday. I know I am not showing because I have been pregnant for approximately an hour. Sherbie comes zooming up to me to walk me to class (I LOVE that, by the way) and this is our conversation:
Sherbie: Your ass is looking mighty fine today. As usual.
me: Thank you, sir. Your pants are nicely pressed. As usual.
Sherbie: Thank you, miss. I have some news for you and about you. I had a vision, if you will.
me: Oh really? Please share.
Sherbie: 1) You're pregnant.
me: Uh-huh.
{For all I know, I could be talking to God; I am intrigued to say the least}.
Sherbie: 2) And it's a boy.
me: Uh-huh. (But there are 19 boys in Hub's family and 3 girls. Of course it is a boy. Not that he knows the family tree. But still).
Sherbie: 3) And you're gonna name him Diggity.
me: This, my friend, is where we part ways.
However, I was/am pregnant. It is a boy (we found out today). And, yes, his final prediction/vision was correct. We have given him the call sign of Diggity.
Thursday, July 8, 2010
OMA!
My neighbor babysat bebe boy twice a week for eight months and he ADORED her. Unlike Mom and Dad (the duds), she did nothing other than entertain the baby all day. If he wanted to throw a tennis ball to her dog for five hours, she was more than happy to accommodate (yes, he was often able to wear out a German Shepherd). He called her Oma (she is Dutch and fab-u-lous in every way). Oma also keeps a huge supply of bananas on hand (hers, clearly, taste better than the bananas I buy).
It always amazes me that people assume that babies have no short-term memory or "real" feelings. Here is a perfect example to the contrary...
So the other day we are going to see my midwife (yes, I am pregnant again in case you missed the announcement) and I tell Luc "we are going to go see someone who loves you very much."
It always amazes me that people assume that babies have no short-term memory or "real" feelings. Here is a perfect example to the contrary...
So the other day we are going to see my midwife (yes, I am pregnant again in case you missed the announcement) and I tell Luc "we are going to go see someone who loves you very much."
He shouts "OMA!" and starts running for the door with a banana and a tennis ball in his hand. I felt horrid disappointing him...
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Thursday, July 1, 2010
First Phrases
So, when bebe boy was 10 months old he had 15 words. You know, the usual: Mama, Dada, ball, truck...
My favorites were "takoo" for "thank you" and his very extended "welcommmme." And, yes, I was thrilled beyond all comprehension that among his first words were thank you and (you're) welcome. Sniff, sniff.
At about 12 months, he lost interest in those words other than Mama, Dada, Wiwah (for Delilah the bulldog, his bff) and Hummy (what he calls our dog, Humphrey).
However, now he whips out the occasional phrase that is shocking and not to be repeated no matter how we cajole, beg. threaten.
The first one was "Ididn'tknowwhereyouwere?" while he wandered around with his arms in the air.
The second one was "LoveyouMom" after he ran across the room, planted a smackeroo on my mouth and then zoomed off. Yes, I melted and, don't deny it, you would too.
Today, he fell asleep in his car seat clutching, of course, a ball. He is endlessly fascinated with balls, it is such a cliche but, I swear, we don't encourage it.
He wakes up, looks around his car seat and asks "Wheremyballis?" Not exactly correct English but give the kid a break he is only 18 months old.
His declaration of love for me was only a couple of days before his declaration of his love for football.
You have no idea how grateful I am for this...
My favorites were "takoo" for "thank you" and his very extended "welcommmme." And, yes, I was thrilled beyond all comprehension that among his first words were thank you and (you're) welcome. Sniff, sniff.
At about 12 months, he lost interest in those words other than Mama, Dada, Wiwah (for Delilah the bulldog, his bff) and Hummy (what he calls our dog, Humphrey).
However, now he whips out the occasional phrase that is shocking and not to be repeated no matter how we cajole, beg. threaten.
The first one was "Ididn'tknowwhereyouwere?" while he wandered around with his arms in the air.
The second one was "LoveyouMom" after he ran across the room, planted a smackeroo on my mouth and then zoomed off. Yes, I melted and, don't deny it, you would too.
Today, he fell asleep in his car seat clutching, of course, a ball. He is endlessly fascinated with balls, it is such a cliche but, I swear, we don't encourage it.
He wakes up, looks around his car seat and asks "Wheremyballis?" Not exactly correct English but give the kid a break he is only 18 months old.
His declaration of love for me was only a couple of days before his declaration of his love for football.
You have no idea how grateful I am for this...
Monday, June 28, 2010
#35 Quirky Reasons Why I Love You
All (or most all) parents love their children in ways they never knew possible. I get that. But some of my favorite things about being a mom are bebe boy's quirks.
I love how you prepare for road trips by kicking back in your car seat with a Perrier between your legs, one leg tossed over the side and a book in your hand.
I love how you never walk from one place to another: you either run or dance there.
I love how you will completely un-selfconsciously rock out in public when you feel the need to (Dancing Queen, All the Single Ladies, Proud Mary are some of your faves).
I love how you sleep with your bottom in the air.
I love how you can, literally, dance your diaper off. In public. To Mustang Sally. {No picture, sadly}
I love how cherry tomatoes hold a special place in your heart {I ate thousands of them while I was pregnant with you... coincidence?}
I love how you expect people to love you and to be kind. You remind me on a daily basis to fully anticipate the laughter and fun in life.
Being your mom rocks, little guy. Thank you for choosing me.
I love how you prepare for road trips by kicking back in your car seat with a Perrier between your legs, one leg tossed over the side and a book in your hand.
I love how you never walk from one place to another: you either run or dance there.
I love how you will completely un-selfconsciously rock out in public when you feel the need to (Dancing Queen, All the Single Ladies, Proud Mary are some of your faves).
I love how you sleep with your bottom in the air.
I love how cherry tomatoes hold a special place in your heart {I ate thousands of them while I was pregnant with you... coincidence?}
I love how you expect people to love you and to be kind. You remind me on a daily basis to fully anticipate the laughter and fun in life.
Being your mom rocks, little guy. Thank you for choosing me.
Sunday, June 27, 2010
#34 On Why I Am a Bad Mommy
At times, I feel like I am not exactly an exemplary mom. Now don't start calling CPS just yet on me. I spend $10/day on just organic strawberries and Omega 3 fortified, organic milk. Yes, I have drunk the Cool-Aid, but I can't argue with the results. He never gets sick, has never even had diaper rash and has the sunniest disposition imaginable. If it ain't broke...
And to my credit, I did not yell at you, sweet bebe boy, when you were gnawing on my Hermes bag. I did not get upset when you gave me yogurt dreadlocks. Hell, I laughed it off when you pooped in the tub (while I was in it, btw).
That being said, it seems like other moms are much more bedraggled by their offspring. And, for whatever reason, I assume that makes them a better mom than me. Yes, my shirts are always dirty (but I consider evidence of baby lovin' and hugs rather than a permanent state of filth) but other than that....
We don't have a Raffi CD so there is not one permanently stuck in my car CD player. I figure when you drive, you can choose the music but in the meantime, Shortie, Mommy chooses. {Though I must admit that it makes me melt that you are so enamored with BB King. Have I mentioned that you are one kick-ass, cool kid?}
I have yet to buy fish sticks, chicken nuggets or that pre-packaged applesauce in little plastic containers. You have teeth, you can eat real salmon and apples. Momma does not believe in breading or artificial thickeners, whatever the hell they are.
We have no qualms about having a glass of wine on the deck while you zoom around in your Porsche pedal car tormenting the dog. Not every activity needs to be interactive with Mommy and Daddy, especially while we are having margaritas.
And to my credit, I did not yell at you, sweet bebe boy, when you were gnawing on my Hermes bag. I did not get upset when you gave me yogurt dreadlocks. Hell, I laughed it off when you pooped in the tub (while I was in it, btw).
That being said, it seems like other moms are much more bedraggled by their offspring. And, for whatever reason, I assume that makes them a better mom than me. Yes, my shirts are always dirty (but I consider evidence of baby lovin' and hugs rather than a permanent state of filth) but other than that....
We don't have a Raffi CD so there is not one permanently stuck in my car CD player. I figure when you drive, you can choose the music but in the meantime, Shortie, Mommy chooses. {Though I must admit that it makes me melt that you are so enamored with BB King. Have I mentioned that you are one kick-ass, cool kid?}
I have yet to buy fish sticks, chicken nuggets or that pre-packaged applesauce in little plastic containers. You have teeth, you can eat real salmon and apples. Momma does not believe in breading or artificial thickeners, whatever the hell they are.
We have no qualms about having a glass of wine on the deck while you zoom around in your Porsche pedal car tormenting the dog. Not every activity needs to be interactive with Mommy and Daddy, especially while we are having margaritas.
Saturday, June 26, 2010
#33 Know What You Like
Rather than what is trendy.
Here are your favorites thus far (indulge me, people, I am not getting any younger and I suck at journaling and scrapbooking -- when did that become a verb, btw? So, I write things down here so I will remember then when I am in the old folks home):
"Dancing Queen" by ABBA
"All the Single Ladies" by Beyonce
dogs, the larger the better (and if the dog can fetch, boNANza)
ice cream sandwiches (that's my boy!)
cherry tomatoes
udon noodles
strawberries
your bottle of milk (half gallon a day... egads)
Oma
balls (or pictures of balls, you totally don't discriminate)
shiny, exposed areas of flesh that you can zerbert (see posts from 1/11/2010 and 6/21/2010 for proof of his love of the zerbert)
Here are your favorites thus far (indulge me, people, I am not getting any younger and I suck at journaling and scrapbooking -- when did that become a verb, btw? So, I write things down here so I will remember then when I am in the old folks home):
"Dancing Queen" by ABBA
"All the Single Ladies" by Beyonce
dogs, the larger the better (and if the dog can fetch, boNANza)
ice cream sandwiches (that's my boy!)
cherry tomatoes
udon noodles
strawberries
your bottle of milk (half gallon a day... egads)
Oma
balls (or pictures of balls, you totally don't discriminate)
shiny, exposed areas of flesh that you can zerbert (see posts from 1/11/2010 and 6/21/2010 for proof of his love of the zerbert)
Friday, June 25, 2010
#32 Crummy Jobs...
everyone has to have had them so they appreciate all the great stuff they later have. You, kiddo, will be no exception. I assume that we will be able to well afford a car for you but you are going to have to earn it.
Here are some of the crappy jobs your daddy and I have had:
** an ice cream scooper at Braums (though, not to brag, I can still square dip with the best of them and I make a wicked milkshake)
** a clown at McDonalds
Daddy's jobs went to the dirtier:
** laying sprinkler systems. In the summer. In South Texas.
** being a short order cook on an oil rig.
Yep, they suck they make you appreciate the good life when you get it. There is NOTHING worse than a kid with a sense of entitlement. Nothing.
Here are some of the crappy jobs your daddy and I have had:
** an ice cream scooper at Braums (though, not to brag, I can still square dip with the best of them and I make a wicked milkshake)
** a clown at McDonalds
Daddy's jobs went to the dirtier:
** laying sprinkler systems. In the summer. In South Texas.
** being a short order cook on an oil rig.
Yep, they suck they make you appreciate the good life when you get it. There is NOTHING worse than a kid with a sense of entitlement. Nothing.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
#31 And Speaking of Gay
from yesterday...
Other stupid (stoopid, even) things that I have heard since you were born about homosexuals:
"His hair is too long. If you don't cut it, he is going to be gay."
"Boys should not wear cardigans, they will end up gay."
And my personal favorite:
"Aren't you concerned that he likes strawberry ice cream? It is 'gayer' than chocolate."
Oh honest to God, if your grasp on heterosexuality is so tenuous that ice cream is the deciding factor, you are going to be gay, my darling baby boy. And for the record, that is fine with your daddy and I. Please do not be one of those closet cases full of angst and self-loathing. You are one of the most beloved people on the planet, your sexuality could never change that.
Our view is what someone does in the privacy of their own bedroom (between consenting adults) is none of anyone else's business. {Child molesters are another story but they are, statistically, heterosexual men. And dead if they come near my sweeties. And I do mean, D E A D but previous to death, tortured. Hubby has a degree is that kind of stuff, don't tempt fate in case you are a fan of my blog}.
I know, I know. Totally out of character but occasionally I post pictures of sweet bebe boy and it kind of freaks me out.
And, for the record, your daddy loves strawberry ice cream and he is decidedly heterosexual.
Other stupid (stoopid, even) things that I have heard since you were born about homosexuals:
"His hair is too long. If you don't cut it, he is going to be gay."
"Boys should not wear cardigans, they will end up gay."
And my personal favorite:
"Aren't you concerned that he likes strawberry ice cream? It is 'gayer' than chocolate."
Oh honest to God, if your grasp on heterosexuality is so tenuous that ice cream is the deciding factor, you are going to be gay, my darling baby boy. And for the record, that is fine with your daddy and I. Please do not be one of those closet cases full of angst and self-loathing. You are one of the most beloved people on the planet, your sexuality could never change that.
Our view is what someone does in the privacy of their own bedroom (between consenting adults) is none of anyone else's business. {Child molesters are another story but they are, statistically, heterosexual men. And dead if they come near my sweeties. And I do mean, D E A D but previous to death, tortured. Hubby has a degree is that kind of stuff, don't tempt fate in case you are a fan of my blog}.
I know, I know. Totally out of character but occasionally I post pictures of sweet bebe boy and it kind of freaks me out.
And, for the record, your daddy loves strawberry ice cream and he is decidedly heterosexual.
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
#30 On Affection
Do not be one of those freaky dads who can't tell their kids that they love them, especially their boy children. "It will make them weak" is a crock. Your daddy loves you with all of his heart (as do I) and he is man enough to publicly and {loudly} express it.
Don't get me started on men who won't kiss their sons/grandsons because it will "turn them into homosexuals." Seriously...
Don't get me started on men who won't kiss their sons/grandsons because it will "turn them into homosexuals." Seriously...
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
#29 Thank You
Always be the first person to say thank you.
Know how to write a proper (and beautiful) thank you note.
Know that thank you notes are not just for job interviews.
A hearty thank you and handshake is appropriate for the owners of a restaurant while everyone else needs a tip along with your gratitude.
Monday, June 21, 2010
#28 On Nakedness
Let your own babies have naked time. To a one they all love it and who does not need more "happy dances" in their life?
And learn the difference between naked time and nekkid time. One is for babies and one is MOST DEFINITELY not for the underaged.
And learn the difference between naked time and nekkid time. One is for babies and one is MOST DEFINITELY not for the underaged.
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Bunny!
I have heard it said that in every parent's life, there comes a time when you beg the universe "please don't let that be my child." Normally this thought is precipitated by the crashing of hundreds of bottles of BBQ sauce or a display of crystal.
Well, my first "PDLTBMC" moment came today at Whole Foods. Now to bebe's credit, Whole Foods is his 'hood. He is totally a Whole Foodie and currently has a $5/day organic strawberry habit in addition to his $4/day milk issue. I am trying to rationalize this with decreased health care costs but, seriously, Houston, we have a problem.
But that is for another day. This is about The PDLTBMC Incident.
We are zooming through Whole Foods and bebe boy is perfectly content eating strawberries and sampling the free smoked gouda (yes, I totally let him eat the free samples at WF but not at other places. For whatever misguided and warped reason, I am convinced that dirty hands don't touch the WF samples. Yes, I know this is ridiculous but it is my madness as well as my blog so there)!
Once he has been sated, he insists on getting out and pushing the cart. I hate this because it slows me down but, seriously, this is not the hill upon which I choose to die, Marine. So I let him out. He pushes the cart in huge circles and randomly stops to dance or pick up some snacks for his discriminating self ("ohhhh, Baby Bells, don't mind if I do." "Is that cave-aged cheese?").
So, I am at the charcuterie counter (SO much more attractive than "deli counter") and here comes a character I will deem "Bunny." Now everyone knows a Bunny or, at the very least can pick her out in a crowd. She is the 30-something woman who wears completely inappropriate attire for Sunday morning grocery shopping and acts like she has no idea that she is, essentially, naked.
Bunny's get-up this a.m. consisted of a silver lame shirt and (really beautiful) platform heels in black snakeskin (hey, she is a whore but a whore with very good taste in footwear). And, yes, I do mean she was wearing a shirt. I think when the vice police come to get her, she will swear up and down that she thought it was a dress, but it was a shirt. And not a particularly long shirt either. I am against forcing women into wearing a burka but, seriously, I am less than amused with seeing your cheeks while I pick out my Romas.
So, anyway, bebe boy is fascinated by shiny, half-naked girl (which was clearly her intent. She was, hopefully, aiming for a slightly older audience than my 18 month old but attention is what she wanted and she got it. In spades.) When she zooms by, bebe boy claps. Not as appreciatively as he does for cherry tomatoes or strawberries but she got a higher score than the bananas got this morning. Not bad for 10am on a Sunday.
This is where the wheels come off. I am chatting away with the deli guy (oh sorry, the charcuterie monsieur) and I hear a bit of a ruckus. I turn around just in time to see that Bunny is bent over, cheeks fully exposed. Seeing her shiny naked self is too much -- bebe boy has abandoned both the cart and the mozzarella de buffala. He has danced over (he either runs or dances everywhere. Walking is so boring), lifted up her shirt the rest of the way, done a quick bongo set on her cheeks and given her a very large zerbert. Quite possibly his best zerbert ever, it was the perfect combination of moisture, length and pressure.
He then falls down laughing and clapping for himself.
I am beyond horrified. There is no way you can apologize enough to someone to express the horror I felt.
Did I mention that Bunny was not wearing underwear?
Well, my first "PDLTBMC" moment came today at Whole Foods. Now to bebe's credit, Whole Foods is his 'hood. He is totally a Whole Foodie and currently has a $5/day organic strawberry habit in addition to his $4/day milk issue. I am trying to rationalize this with decreased health care costs but, seriously, Houston, we have a problem.
But that is for another day. This is about The PDLTBMC Incident.
We are zooming through Whole Foods and bebe boy is perfectly content eating strawberries and sampling the free smoked gouda (yes, I totally let him eat the free samples at WF but not at other places. For whatever misguided and warped reason, I am convinced that dirty hands don't touch the WF samples. Yes, I know this is ridiculous but it is my madness as well as my blog so there)!
Once he has been sated, he insists on getting out and pushing the cart. I hate this because it slows me down but, seriously, this is not the hill upon which I choose to die, Marine. So I let him out. He pushes the cart in huge circles and randomly stops to dance or pick up some snacks for his discriminating self ("ohhhh, Baby Bells, don't mind if I do." "Is that cave-aged cheese?").
So, I am at the charcuterie counter (SO much more attractive than "deli counter") and here comes a character I will deem "Bunny." Now everyone knows a Bunny or, at the very least can pick her out in a crowd. She is the 30-something woman who wears completely inappropriate attire for Sunday morning grocery shopping and acts like she has no idea that she is, essentially, naked.
Bunny's get-up this a.m. consisted of a silver lame shirt and (really beautiful) platform heels in black snakeskin (hey, she is a whore but a whore with very good taste in footwear). And, yes, I do mean she was wearing a shirt. I think when the vice police come to get her, she will swear up and down that she thought it was a dress, but it was a shirt. And not a particularly long shirt either. I am against forcing women into wearing a burka but, seriously, I am less than amused with seeing your cheeks while I pick out my Romas.
So, anyway, bebe boy is fascinated by shiny, half-naked girl (which was clearly her intent. She was, hopefully, aiming for a slightly older audience than my 18 month old but attention is what she wanted and she got it. In spades.) When she zooms by, bebe boy claps. Not as appreciatively as he does for cherry tomatoes or strawberries but she got a higher score than the bananas got this morning. Not bad for 10am on a Sunday.
This is where the wheels come off. I am chatting away with the deli guy (oh sorry, the charcuterie monsieur) and I hear a bit of a ruckus. I turn around just in time to see that Bunny is bent over, cheeks fully exposed. Seeing her shiny naked self is too much -- bebe boy has abandoned both the cart and the mozzarella de buffala. He has danced over (he either runs or dances everywhere. Walking is so boring), lifted up her shirt the rest of the way, done a quick bongo set on her cheeks and given her a very large zerbert. Quite possibly his best zerbert ever, it was the perfect combination of moisture, length and pressure.
He then falls down laughing and clapping for himself.
I am beyond horrified. There is no way you can apologize enough to someone to express the horror I felt.
Did I mention that Bunny was not wearing underwear?
Saturday, May 15, 2010
#27 Plant
Every summer, regardless of where you live or how busy you are, grow tomatoes and basil.
Naturally, if you have the space plant more things but these are the bare minimum. Yes, even if you have the tiniest of balconies.
Learn how to make bruschetta with these ingredients and be willing to share.
Naturally, if you have the space plant more things but these are the bare minimum. Yes, even if you have the tiniest of balconies.
Learn how to make bruschetta with these ingredients and be willing to share.
Friday, May 7, 2010
# 26 Memorial Day
Give your sincerest thanks to veterans.
Always remember that WWII vets saved the world.
Always remember that WWII vets saved the world.
Monday, April 26, 2010
#25 You May Have One Phobia, Anything More Than That And You Are Just Wimpy/Annoying
So this weekend we started building the chicken coop. Well, that is a lie. Hubby started building, I merely helped with the design, answered math questions and provided encouragement. I am all about encouragement (and math if you must know).
We have decided to keep some chickens for the eggs and because we think that bebe boy will get a charge out of them. No, we are not going to eat the birds themselves -- that is a little too natural, even for me.
The downside of this (brilliant) plan is that I am afraid of birds. Terrified. Scared poopless (trying to swear less now that bebe boy can repeat stuff). I know it is a ridiculous fear but it is a fear nonetheless and I figure I can have one phobia if I want to.
Hubby does not like alligators. I don't like birds (but I love 'gator handbags and shoes). Bebe boy, you may have one ridiculous phobia. But please don't let it be a fear of flying since travel is muy important to your parents. And you may not also be afraid of elevators since Mommy hates climbing stairs. But, other than that, quiver on, dear child.
We have decided to keep some chickens for the eggs and because we think that bebe boy will get a charge out of them. No, we are not going to eat the birds themselves -- that is a little too natural, even for me.
The downside of this (brilliant) plan is that I am afraid of birds. Terrified. Scared poopless (trying to swear less now that bebe boy can repeat stuff). I know it is a ridiculous fear but it is a fear nonetheless and I figure I can have one phobia if I want to.
Hubby does not like alligators. I don't like birds (but I love 'gator handbags and shoes). Bebe boy, you may have one ridiculous phobia. But please don't let it be a fear of flying since travel is muy important to your parents. And you may not also be afraid of elevators since Mommy hates climbing stairs. But, other than that, quiver on, dear child.
Friday, April 23, 2010
#24 On Making Up
Since yesterday's post seemed angry to some, here is a nice follow-up:
Always forgive someone the first time. Ponder forgiving someone the second time.
The more you love someone the more often you should forgive them. However, don't be a punching bag...
Always forgive someone the first time. Ponder forgiving someone the second time.
The more you love someone the more often you should forgive them. However, don't be a punching bag...
Thursday, April 22, 2010
#23 On Fighting
Your mom is a pacifist and relies upon karma. Being a pacifist is much easier when you are married to someone who is well-armed and trained as a USMC sniper. Just saying...
That being said, Mommy's advice is to always stick up for the little guy. If you have to come to blows, hit hard and first. Preferrably in the nose. Odds are, you will never have to do it again.
Daddy's advice: hit to disable. I am not sure precisely what that means but I am positive you will get the full explanation at some point.
Both of us agree on the following tenets:
1) don't hit girls
2) don't be a bully
3) always stick up for your beliefs and your family
That being said, Mommy's advice is to always stick up for the little guy. If you have to come to blows, hit hard and first. Preferrably in the nose. Odds are, you will never have to do it again.
Daddy's advice: hit to disable. I am not sure precisely what that means but I am positive you will get the full explanation at some point.
Both of us agree on the following tenets:
1) don't hit girls
2) don't be a bully
3) always stick up for your beliefs and your family
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
#22 Happy Earth Day
Eat organic.
Eat local.
Support local.
Support small family farms.
Eat grass fed.
Eat cage free.
Eat free range.
Hug a tree.
Thank a tree.
Eat local.
Support local.
Support small family farms.
Eat grass fed.
Eat cage free.
Eat free range.
Hug a tree.
Thank a tree.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
#21 When to Brag
There is NOTHING classier than someone who will brag about their friends' accomplishments. The beauty of this is twofold: your friend get her accomplishments out there without, well, looking like a braggart and you show grace.
Caveat: this only works if you are sincere about it. If you are filled with envy, skip it. Otherwise, you will look like an ass.
Caveat: this only works if you are sincere about it. If you are filled with envy, skip it. Otherwise, you will look like an ass.
Friday, March 26, 2010
#20 Read
every day. NO ONE is too busy or too tired to read at least a chapter.
Presidents, military generals and admirals, CEOs, scientists, astronauts and all other successful people read. If Einstein can make the time to read while sorting out relativity and Patton can read while saving the world from Nazism, you can crank out a chapter of a best seller (at a minimum).
We all have 24 hours in a day, use yours wisely.
No matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for reading, or surrender yourself to self-chosen ignorance. ~ Confucius
Presidents, military generals and admirals, CEOs, scientists, astronauts and all other successful people read. If Einstein can make the time to read while sorting out relativity and Patton can read while saving the world from Nazism, you can crank out a chapter of a best seller (at a minimum).
We all have 24 hours in a day, use yours wisely.
No matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for reading, or surrender yourself to self-chosen ignorance. ~ Confucius
Thursday, March 25, 2010
#19 Watch James Bond Movies
preferably with your dad.
Have a favorite Bond and know why you prefer him.
Have a favorite Bond and know why you prefer him.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
#18 Dating
When out with a woman, offer to at least split dessert with her (if she claims not to want her own). As a rule, we love sweets but don't want to look like pigs. If she refuses, be wary... high drama and maintenance may be right around the corner.
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
#17 Know How to Tie a Bow Tie
and when wearing any kind of tie, you must button the top button of your shirt. There are few things tackier than an unbuttoned top button with a tie on -- you don't look cool and casual, you simply look sloppy.
And use real bow ties, not the pre-tied ones.
And another thing, cumberbunds pleats should face upward (your dad says it is to catch crumbs. Not true but if it helps you to remember which way is up...).
At the end of the evening, there are few things sexier than a man with his bow tie untied and the top button of his collar undone. But leave the cumberbund in tact.
Trust me on this one.
And use real bow ties, not the pre-tied ones.
And another thing, cumberbunds pleats should face upward (your dad says it is to catch crumbs. Not true but if it helps you to remember which way is up...).
At the end of the evening, there are few things sexier than a man with his bow tie untied and the top button of his collar undone. But leave the cumberbund in tact.
Trust me on this one.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Cherry Tomatoes and Red Balloons
So, Hubs, bebe and I are in Santa Fe. We LOVE Santa Fe. Seriously, love, love, love it. Every time I come here I wonder why I don't live here. That being said, I have heard it described as "America's lint trap." In addition to hippies and artists, Santa Fe has more than its share of odd ducks and people who simply can't find their way in the regular world.
Personally, I have no issues with these folks because, though I am only slightly off-beat, I truly believe that it takes all types. This does not, however, pertain to people who eats mounds of fast food and then winge about their blood pressure -- that I simply do not understand or accept.
So, bebe and I are at Trader Joe's, one of my fave places on the planet. I loathe to grocery shop but I love shopping at TJ's and Whole Foods. They are not farmers' markets but the closest thing... farmers' markets make me happy.
{This is one of those stories I am writing so that I don't forget the moment when I am senile and eating pudding in the old lady home}
Back to the point... bebe's latest thing is cherry tomatoes. He will eat dozens of them if I let him. {And, of course, I let him. They are healthy and portable -- two key elements for this mommy}. He sees some at TJ's, grabs them and clutches them to his body like they are his long lost puppy. Seriously, he is beaming, hugging them to his chest and rocking back and forth. Quite the drama king I have here.
All is great with the world: two separate people have commented on the beauty of our auras (they are intertwined, in case you care), I am picking up chocolate covered edamame, sea salt scrub and Two Buck Chuck and bebe boy is munching on cherry tomatoes. Could life be any more perfect?
Enter the balloon lady. Someone gives bebe a balloon and ties it to his hand. And it is a red balloon to boot. Apparently, to him this red balloon resembles a giant cherry tomato so he is long past giddy. Red? And it floats and bobs? And I get to play with it while I eat tomatoes? BoNANza!
It is not long before bebe has drawn a crowd with his laughter. Someone pulled the balloon down and bebe was mesmerized by it floating back up. This sent him into peals of laughter. Peals. Which drew a larger crowd. It was quite the scene. There are a dozen people gathered around my child, bopping the balloon and then recording (on video, camera and voice) his response. I am his mom and I don't have a camera with me but he is surrounded by 12 Cecil B DeMille types (three of whom look homeless). And two total strangers have his belly laugh as their ringtone while I have the theme song from "Sanford and Son" as mine. I am pretty sure this makes me a bad mom...
Regardless, I take this as a prime opportunity to find a bench and drink my watermelon juice. All is right with the world... a perfect Santa Fe moment.
Personally, I have no issues with these folks because, though I am only slightly off-beat, I truly believe that it takes all types. This does not, however, pertain to people who eats mounds of fast food and then winge about their blood pressure -- that I simply do not understand or accept.
So, bebe and I are at Trader Joe's, one of my fave places on the planet. I loathe to grocery shop but I love shopping at TJ's and Whole Foods. They are not farmers' markets but the closest thing... farmers' markets make me happy.
{This is one of those stories I am writing so that I don't forget the moment when I am senile and eating pudding in the old lady home}
Back to the point... bebe's latest thing is cherry tomatoes. He will eat dozens of them if I let him. {And, of course, I let him. They are healthy and portable -- two key elements for this mommy}. He sees some at TJ's, grabs them and clutches them to his body like they are his long lost puppy. Seriously, he is beaming, hugging them to his chest and rocking back and forth. Quite the drama king I have here.
All is great with the world: two separate people have commented on the beauty of our auras (they are intertwined, in case you care), I am picking up chocolate covered edamame, sea salt scrub and Two Buck Chuck and bebe boy is munching on cherry tomatoes. Could life be any more perfect?
Enter the balloon lady. Someone gives bebe a balloon and ties it to his hand. And it is a red balloon to boot. Apparently, to him this red balloon resembles a giant cherry tomato so he is long past giddy. Red? And it floats and bobs? And I get to play with it while I eat tomatoes? BoNANza!
It is not long before bebe has drawn a crowd with his laughter. Someone pulled the balloon down and bebe was mesmerized by it floating back up. This sent him into peals of laughter. Peals. Which drew a larger crowd. It was quite the scene. There are a dozen people gathered around my child, bopping the balloon and then recording (on video, camera and voice) his response. I am his mom and I don't have a camera with me but he is surrounded by 12 Cecil B DeMille types (three of whom look homeless). And two total strangers have his belly laugh as their ringtone while I have the theme song from "Sanford and Son" as mine. I am pretty sure this makes me a bad mom...
Regardless, I take this as a prime opportunity to find a bench and drink my watermelon juice. All is right with the world... a perfect Santa Fe moment.
#16 Never Say No To:
Someone asking you to dance.
Homemade ice cream or brownies.
The opportunity to make someone feel good about themselves.
Someone asking you to take their picture.
A child asking to sit on your shoulders during the parade.
Someone asking you to stand up in their wedding.
Homemade ice cream or brownies.
The opportunity to make someone feel good about themselves.
Someone asking you to take their picture.
A child asking to sit on your shoulders during the parade.
Someone asking you to stand up in their wedding.
Sunday, March 21, 2010
#15 Know How to Cook
At the very least you need to know how to make one app, roast a chicken, make one soup, do a saute, make scrambled eggs, steam veggies and how to properly whip cream so you can have berries and cream for a dessert.
I, of course, would love it if you knew a lot of other recipes but I will accept it if you only know these things. And make sure and eat your veggies, Mommy loves you way too much to let you skip that universal piece of maternal advice. Furthermore, please concentrate your veggie efforts on kale, spinach, chard and cress. For the record, we do not count ketchup as a veggie in our family.
I, of course, would love it if you knew a lot of other recipes but I will accept it if you only know these things. And make sure and eat your veggies, Mommy loves you way too much to let you skip that universal piece of maternal advice. Furthermore, please concentrate your veggie efforts on kale, spinach, chard and cress. For the record, we do not count ketchup as a veggie in our family.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
#14 Spring Solstice
Love the earth.
Recycle. Always.
Never litter. And I mean NEVER.
Eat organically.
Plant trees.
Recycle. Always.
Never litter. And I mean NEVER.
Eat organically.
Plant trees.
Friday, March 19, 2010
#13 On Tipping
Always tip at least 20%.
Tip on the full amount, even if there is a special.
Never tip the owner, a handshake and a sincere thank you are appropriate.
Absolutely overtip breakfast waitresses and single moms. They are busting their ass and a $1 tip on your $5 eggs and coffee is tacky.
If you can't afford to tip appropriately, stay home.
Tip on the full amount, even if there is a special.
Never tip the owner, a handshake and a sincere thank you are appropriate.
Absolutely overtip breakfast waitresses and single moms. They are busting their ass and a $1 tip on your $5 eggs and coffee is tacky.
If you can't afford to tip appropriately, stay home.
Thursday, March 18, 2010
#12 Call Your Dad
Today is your daddy's birthday. When you stop living with us, make sure you call him on his birthday. While you do live with us, make a production and a cake. You will never know how much he loves you until you have a son of your own. He would lay down his life for you without a moment's hesitation, never forget that.
Your dad has been shot at in four countries and has been rocketed on more than one occasion. That was NOTHING compared to the fear he had when you were in ICU with RSV.
This is the man who COULD NOT WAIT until Thanksgiving Day so that you both could wear your Dallas Cowboys gear and play football in the front yard. The fact that you were 11 months old and could not catch or throw made no difference to him. Daddy is not one to be deterred by details like a lack of fine motor skills.
Your dad is a man among men and if you end up being half the man he is, I will consider myself a huge success for bringing you into this world.
Your dad has been shot at in four countries and has been rocketed on more than one occasion. That was NOTHING compared to the fear he had when you were in ICU with RSV.
This is the man who COULD NOT WAIT until Thanksgiving Day so that you both could wear your Dallas Cowboys gear and play football in the front yard. The fact that you were 11 months old and could not catch or throw made no difference to him. Daddy is not one to be deterred by details like a lack of fine motor skills.
Your dad is a man among men and if you end up being half the man he is, I will consider myself a huge success for bringing you into this world.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
#11 Take Time to Feed the Ducks
Take your child on a pony ride at the zoo.
Let your kids swing their hearts out at the park.
Jungle gyms and carousel rides are good for the soul.
Let your kids swing their hearts out at the park.
Jungle gyms and carousel rides are good for the soul.
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
#10 On Call Signs...
(or nicknames for the non-military). Yes, they are annoying and juvenile but it is a sign of respect and acceptance when you get one. Wear it with pride.
My sweet bebe, you are so wicked cool that you got your call sign while you were in utero. You may not appreciate the moniker of "Wood" but it is yours. I had to stop all the fighter pilots from pouring beer on my belly to properly christen you when you received it.
{For the details on why we call him Wood, see my blog posting on August 14, 09 http://scotchandcupcakes.blogspot.com/2009/08/sex-sonogram.html}
My sweet bebe, you are so wicked cool that you got your call sign while you were in utero. You may not appreciate the moniker of "Wood" but it is yours. I had to stop all the fighter pilots from pouring beer on my belly to properly christen you when you received it.
{For the details on why we call him Wood, see my blog posting on August 14, 09 http://scotchandcupcakes.blogspot.com/2009/08/sex-sonogram.html}
Monday, March 15, 2010
The Ides of March
So every ides of March I think of my high school Latin teacher (Calculus and Latin. Yes, I was cool AND practical even then. ).
Mr Cusick carried an authentic, hand sewn linen tunic and toga as well as hand sewn leather sandals in the trunk of his car at all times. Nope, not for the spur of the moment toga party... in case he found a time machine.
In the event that he found a time machine, he wanted to be able to dart to his car, grab his ensemble and zoom him self back to ancient Rome. He kept a scraggly beard and matching hairdo for the same reasons of authenticity.
Because, clearly, the biggest glitch in this scenario would be well-styled hair or a pair of Nikes.
Mr Cusick carried an authentic, hand sewn linen tunic and toga as well as hand sewn leather sandals in the trunk of his car at all times. Nope, not for the spur of the moment toga party... in case he found a time machine.
In the event that he found a time machine, he wanted to be able to dart to his car, grab his ensemble and zoom him self back to ancient Rome. He kept a scraggly beard and matching hairdo for the same reasons of authenticity.
Because, clearly, the biggest glitch in this scenario would be well-styled hair or a pair of Nikes.
#9 Love Hemingway
and Staubach and F. Scott Fitzgerald and John Wayne and Elvis.
Women to love: The Hepburns and Jane Austen and the Bronte sisters.
Women to love: The Hepburns and Jane Austen and the Bronte sisters.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Saturday, March 13, 2010
#7 Don't Be an Annoying Diner
If you feel compelled to make more than one change to a meal when ordering it, order something else. There is nothing more annoying than people who order something and modify it into something completely different. And do not order dressing on the side, it makes men look wimpy and women look high maintenance.
Friday, March 12, 2010
#6 Eat Organically Whenever Possible
Yes, I know that people say it is a waste of money and that there is no nutritional difference. To that I say: for millennia, people thought the world was flat. It was decades before the government "discovered" that cigarettes are deadly. Sadly, there are still people who think that the lunar landing was some kind of hoax. So neener, neener, neener.
In addition to being better for you (scientists just discovered that pesticides not only emasculate frogs but turn 10% of them into females), it is better for the earth. No doubt. Yes, I know it is more expensive but we sent you to the best of schools, spent extra money on DHA enhanced milk, and fed you wild salmon from Whole Foods at least once a week since you were four months old. Hence, you have enough brain capacity to make enough money to do the right thing.
http://www.cnn.com/2010/TECH/science/03/01/pesticide.study.frogs/index.html?iref=allsearch
PS Even though pesticides don't leak as much into peeled items such as avocados and bananas ... still buy them organically because you love your Mother (earth).
In addition to being better for you (scientists just discovered that pesticides not only emasculate frogs but turn 10% of them into females), it is better for the earth. No doubt. Yes, I know it is more expensive but we sent you to the best of schools, spent extra money on DHA enhanced milk, and fed you wild salmon from Whole Foods at least once a week since you were four months old. Hence, you have enough brain capacity to make enough money to do the right thing.
http://www.cnn.com/2010/TECH/science/03/01/pesticide.study.frogs/index.html?iref=allsearch
PS Even though pesticides don't leak as much into peeled items such as avocados and bananas ... still buy them organically because you love your Mother (earth).
Thursday, March 11, 2010
#5 Always Check Your Fly Before A Big Meeting
Today I have finals so I don't have much time to write. Hence a bit of advice that is self-explanatory BUT crucial!.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
#4 Always have some plants in your house
They clean the air and are pretty to boot.
TOP 10 plants most effective in removing Formaldehyde, Benzene, and Carbon Monoxide from the air
http://www.zone10.com/nasa-study-house-plants-clean-air.html
{Sorry, folks, I am in the middle of finals so today is a quickie}
TOP 10 plants most effective in removing Formaldehyde, Benzene, and Carbon Monoxide from the air
- Bamboo Palm – Chamaedorea Seifritzii
- Chinese Evergreen - Aglaonema Modestum
- English Ivy Hedera Helix
- Gerbera Daisy Gerbera Jamesonii
- Janet Craig - Dracaena “Janet Craig”
- Marginata - Dracaena Marginata
- Mass cane/Corn Plant - Dracaena Massangeana
- Mother-in-Law’s Tongue Sansevieria Laurentii
- Pot Mum – Chrysantheium morifolium
- Peace Lily - Spathiphyllum
http://www.zone10.com/nasa-study-house-plants-clean-air.html
{Sorry, folks, I am in the middle of finals so today is a quickie}
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
#3 Use Your Passport
A well-worn passport is a sign of a well-lived life. (I pinched that from the University of Denver's website. I figure for the $85k I am giving them for my IMBA, they can lend me a phrase).
Bebe boy, you had a passport before you turned one. You and I went to Europe to celebrate your first birthday. Your daddy and I value travel more than most people. I promise you, you will never regret the money you spend on travel, especially international travel.
Travel opens your eyes in ways that nothing else can. See the world. Don't be afraid of people. Don't panic about food and constantly ask "what is in that?" This does not pertain, however, to local water depending upon where you go. Opt for Cokes or beer. Trust me on this one.
Go on safari. Say a prayer at Notre Dame. Ogle the tulips at Keukenhof. Trek for the gorillas in Rwanda. Understand at the Cannes Peace Memorial. Shed a tear at Patton's gravesite in Luxembourg. Dance a tango in South America. Eat street food in Singapore. The world is a huge, delicious place full of amazing and interesting people -- go out and see it.
Bebe boy, you had a passport before you turned one. You and I went to Europe to celebrate your first birthday. Your daddy and I value travel more than most people. I promise you, you will never regret the money you spend on travel, especially international travel.
Travel opens your eyes in ways that nothing else can. See the world. Don't be afraid of people. Don't panic about food and constantly ask "what is in that?" This does not pertain, however, to local water depending upon where you go. Opt for Cokes or beer. Trust me on this one.
Go on safari. Say a prayer at Notre Dame. Ogle the tulips at Keukenhof. Trek for the gorillas in Rwanda. Understand at the Cannes Peace Memorial. Shed a tear at Patton's gravesite in Luxembourg. Dance a tango in South America. Eat street food in Singapore. The world is a huge, delicious place full of amazing and interesting people -- go out and see it.
Monday, March 8, 2010
#2 Buy Whatever It Is That Little People Are Selling
(or at least give them a donation)
One of Mommy's Laws of the Universe is that if a Scout, entrepreneur, Brownie, ballerina, band member, hockey player, debater, whatever asks you to buy cookies, popcorn, lemonade, wrapping paper, chocolate bars, magazines... do it. If you genuinely do not like the product, only buy one thing. If the product looks dodgy (what, exactly, is that in the lemonade?), give a donation. And listen to their spiel; it is good for their self-confidence.
This does not pertain to the creepy adults who sell magazines door-to-door claiming that they are straightening their life out after getting shot in some gang related incident. Feel free to ignore those people. And lock the door after they leave.
Funny bonus tidbit: I was a Girl Scout (I actually wore Mushroom shoes and stockings with my uniform... yeah, I am cool) for two years in elementary school. The first year of the cookie sale, I was shocked to learn that there were prizes for selling the most. One of the girls in my troop won a book bag with a mouse eating a Samoa/Caramel Delight cookie. I wanted that bag!
The following year (I only stayed in GS a second year so that I could sell cookies again and WIN THE MOUSE BAG. Sadly, even then I had an obsession with bags), I pledged to myself that I was going to sell 250 boxes of cookies so that I would get the "free" mouse bag.
My parents had a strict "no selling" policy. No asking anyone at work, no harassing the neighbors, no standing in front of the grocery store hawking my wares. My mother actually said "If someone calls and asks you if they can buy some, you may tell them the choices." Like random wrong number calls ask for cookies? Even at the age of seven, I knew this was not going to happen.
But that was not going to keep me from my mouse bag. No sirree bob. Like any good Southern girl knows, the shortest route from A to B is through Daddy. Yes, it is manipulative but it is also efficient. And I still contend he knew he was being played but happily went along with it because, well, I was his little girl and that is what we do. As long as everyone knows their role and stays in character, no one gets hurt.
I explained my desperate need for the mouse bag to my dad and the fact that the guy who called about the meter readings did not happen to ask if I had any Tagalongs for sale. Sweet Daddy agreed to buy whatever I needed to get the bag. BoNANza!
What my dad did not grasp (nor did I proffer these details) was that I had to sell 250 boxes of cookies to get the bag. The day of delivery, imagine his shock as the Cookie Mom loads 250 boxes of goodies into the station wagon. Imagine his further shock when I needed a check for all of the aforementioned goodies.
Dad and I head straight from cookie pick-up to Sears to buy a freezer to hold the loot. This book bag is now costing over $1000 as well as the wrath of my mother who was not privy to my scheme.
Imagine my shock when we get the prizes. Instead of my "very cute mouse eating a cookie" bag, it is a bag with a girl riding a bicycle which has tires made of Thin Mints! This is not cute! There is no mouse!
I go home in tears with my crappy-ass book bag dragging the ground. Upon seeing me, my Dad says "You mean to tell me that I spent over a thousand dollars on tens of thousands of cookies and a freezer to hold all of them... am still listening to your mother harp about this.... and you don't even like the bag?"
Between tears, I hold up the bag and show him the ugliness of it. Sweet Daddy says "Of course you don't like it, we are not a Thin Mint family."
God bless my sweet Dad who understood Rule #1.
Sunday, March 7, 2010
#1 Have Fun Whenever Possible
So now that I have come up with the new and improved blog theme, I feel an immense amount of pressure to decide on my first bit of advice for bebe boy. I have lots of tidbits that I can think of but the first one... wow, shouldn't it be significant? Profound? Witty? Ironic? Life changing?
Do I have any advice that is any of those things much less all of those things?
Oh dear. What have I gotten myself into? Shouldn't this be fun and light-hearted? It is not like I am blogging about Sudan...
Ah ha! Fun! That will be my first shared tidbit.
Whenever possible, have a great time at whatever you are doing. There are no bonus points for acting stressed-out and busy. If you are going to laugh about it later, go ahead and laugh about it now. Choose your friends and spouse wisely. If they are not fun, you are doomed to a life of gray skies. Negative Noras will say "life is not meant to be fun all the time." Run from these types... if life were not meant to be fun, the Universe would not have created puppies, ice cream cones, babies, pinwheels or tulips.
Do I have any advice that is any of those things much less all of those things?
Oh dear. What have I gotten myself into? Shouldn't this be fun and light-hearted? It is not like I am blogging about Sudan...
Ah ha! Fun! That will be my first shared tidbit.
Whenever possible, have a great time at whatever you are doing. There are no bonus points for acting stressed-out and busy. If you are going to laugh about it later, go ahead and laugh about it now. Choose your friends and spouse wisely. If they are not fun, you are doomed to a life of gray skies. Negative Noras will say "life is not meant to be fun all the time." Run from these types... if life were not meant to be fun, the Universe would not have created puppies, ice cream cones, babies, pinwheels or tulips.
The New and Improved Blog
I know it has been a while since I have blogged. There are some reasons, the first of them being, I have been busy, uninspired and, well, lazy. This takes a lot more effort than it seems like it should. I mean, really, how much time can it possibly take to write several paragraphs? And sometimes it seems like no one is reading this anyway so what is the point?
I am, clearly, not a fan of the winter months. I simply need sun and warmth to make me believe that life will go on. Pathetic, yes, but at least I own it.
A couple of nights ago, Hubby and I watched Julie and Julia. I totally "got" that movie for several reasons including: 1) I am madly in love with Julia Child 2) I am a blogger and 3) I love to cook (and am into the whole local and organic food movement). I actually cried a bit when Julia Child died and, oddly enough, I was in Paris when it happened.
This tearful episode is remarkable for the reason that I am not a cryer. Never have been -- probably never will be. I can tear up when I hear fantastic news or feel a major sense of relief. I have been known to tear up when watching Hubby and bebe sleep while holding hands. But full-fledged waterworks running down my face? Hummm, perhaps every other year. Maybe every third year. I just don't do it.
Hubby finds this to be one of my endearing traits -- don't all men hate the random TearFest? However, when I do sob, it absolutely gets his attention and he knows that I mean business.
But back to the point, the movie made me wonder if I should not have more of a focus to my blog. Right now it is funny stories, some recipes, random baby stuff... But I don't have a hilarious pass-along every single day. Yes, I am witty but, seriously, people I am not a walking calamity.
Plus, a lot of what I put in here is stuff I want to remember about bebe. Everyone tells me that "you swear you won't forget things and you absolutely do." Given the fact that I believe these folks (I was never the girl who had to learn by my own mistakes, I could totally look at someone else's cock-up and decide not to jump off the proverbial bridge myself), I have opted to write the incidents down. I figure when I go to the old lady home, someone can read my stories to me and amuse me while I eat pudding.
So, I have kind of decided to make the new and improved blog have a piece of advice everyday for sweet bebe. Of course, I will still have random snippets, recipes and stories. But at least the advice part I can come up with every single day rather than whenever I have a specific story to tell.
I am, clearly, not a fan of the winter months. I simply need sun and warmth to make me believe that life will go on. Pathetic, yes, but at least I own it.
A couple of nights ago, Hubby and I watched Julie and Julia. I totally "got" that movie for several reasons including: 1) I am madly in love with Julia Child 2) I am a blogger and 3) I love to cook (and am into the whole local and organic food movement). I actually cried a bit when Julia Child died and, oddly enough, I was in Paris when it happened.
This tearful episode is remarkable for the reason that I am not a cryer. Never have been -- probably never will be. I can tear up when I hear fantastic news or feel a major sense of relief. I have been known to tear up when watching Hubby and bebe sleep while holding hands. But full-fledged waterworks running down my face? Hummm, perhaps every other year. Maybe every third year. I just don't do it.
Hubby finds this to be one of my endearing traits -- don't all men hate the random TearFest? However, when I do sob, it absolutely gets his attention and he knows that I mean business.
But back to the point, the movie made me wonder if I should not have more of a focus to my blog. Right now it is funny stories, some recipes, random baby stuff... But I don't have a hilarious pass-along every single day. Yes, I am witty but, seriously, people I am not a walking calamity.
Plus, a lot of what I put in here is stuff I want to remember about bebe. Everyone tells me that "you swear you won't forget things and you absolutely do." Given the fact that I believe these folks (I was never the girl who had to learn by my own mistakes, I could totally look at someone else's cock-up and decide not to jump off the proverbial bridge myself), I have opted to write the incidents down. I figure when I go to the old lady home, someone can read my stories to me and amuse me while I eat pudding.
So, I have kind of decided to make the new and improved blog have a piece of advice everyday for sweet bebe. Of course, I will still have random snippets, recipes and stories. But at least the advice part I can come up with every single day rather than whenever I have a specific story to tell.
Saturday, February 20, 2010
Crunchy!
I am in class -- MY SUSTAINABILITY CLASS, MIND YOU -- eating my sandwich, minding my own beeswax. I am singled out in class and called "Crunchy." By. The. Professor.
For the record, I am singled out for eating an almond butter and lavender honey (unfiltered, of course) sandwich on Whole Foods Seeduction bread. But the kicker was the fact that it was wrapped in a reusable sandwich wrap as opposed to using plastic baggies. The company that I got them from has as a tagline "Plastic bags blow." LOVE that! They estimate that I will save 1000s of baggies from landfills over the lifetime of this wrap. How cool is that?
http://www.reusablebags.com/store/wrapnmat®-large-made-p-2014.html
As you might have sorted out by now, I have no qualms about being the center of attention. Seriously, I write a blog about my daily putterings so I accept the fact that I am an extrovert. But I hate being the center of attention for "mandatory reasons." Being singled out in class is a prime example of that. This is the reason why we had three people at our wedding (and one of them was not invited). The idea of zooming down an aisle and having three hundred people staring at me was revolting. Just not a "ta da" kind of girl, I guess.
For the record, I am singled out for eating an almond butter and lavender honey (unfiltered, of course) sandwich on Whole Foods Seeduction bread. But the kicker was the fact that it was wrapped in a reusable sandwich wrap as opposed to using plastic baggies. The company that I got them from has as a tagline "Plastic bags blow." LOVE that! They estimate that I will save 1000s of baggies from landfills over the lifetime of this wrap. How cool is that?
http://www.reusablebags.com/store/wrapnmat®-large-made-p-2014.html
As you might have sorted out by now, I have no qualms about being the center of attention. Seriously, I write a blog about my daily putterings so I accept the fact that I am an extrovert. But I hate being the center of attention for "mandatory reasons." Being singled out in class is a prime example of that. This is the reason why we had three people at our wedding (and one of them was not invited). The idea of zooming down an aisle and having three hundred people staring at me was revolting. Just not a "ta da" kind of girl, I guess.
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